Working with me …
37-page Destuckification sampler (enjoy!)
Denise’s Situation
Even when I do it totally wrong it still works … !
You would probably be taken aback as to how I’ve bastardized your training, and how lazily I apply your theories, but at least it’s more than I’ve ever managed before. So in my book, that’s quite a success……!
Now when I have a challenging day, I find myself implementing techniques and ideas that I’ve learned from you to not freak out or worry or be insecure, and it’s working.
Had a potentially stressful business trip last week with a lot of unknowns, and your training enabled me to just be calm about it all, and take whatever happened. After just two sessions. Pretty incredible.
Denise della Santina in Portland
Results and skill sets you’ll use in everything else you do in your life
Everyone who does this work comes away imbued with a powerful and lasting sense of competence and confidence, knowing that they have the tools to calm down quickly, meet their issues, do things differently and get things done.
The point is helping you learn how to rewrite internal and external habits and patterns. You learn to interact with and dissolve the doubt, fear, worry, stress and what-ifs that get in the way of you doing the thing you know you want to do.
This is not about little-engine-that-could motivational stuff — it’s an intelligent, conscious process with tangible, useful results. And you pick up all sorts of useful things about yourself, how you work, and how you interact with yourself and the world around you.
You learn how to calm the heck down in any situation
You already know that you can’t really function when everything is falling apart. I can give you techniques for getting quiet and centered in the face of chaos and confusion. So you’ll never have to deal with your issues from a state of freak-out. Instead you’ll be able to meet the challenge from a strong, safe, comfortable place every time.
You learn how you work and how to do it better
Together we figure out how you approach problems and how you function in different situations. Then we tweak for efficacy and efficiency. I’ll help you figure out how to take advantage of your natural tendencies to adapt the process to suit you best.
You discover a new way to interact with yourself — with total integrity and kindness
The one thing that all my clients say over and over again is that they have all learned and internalized a warm, loving, compassionate model of relating to themselves that is also sincere and believable.
You start to actually enjoy doing things differently (!)
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen someone go from “Um, I sort of want to maybe sometime start thinking about eventually doing something with you know, my thing” to “let me tell you about this amazing thing I’m doing.” Hooray!
You start taking care of yourself better than ever — and accomplishing more than ever
Get more done. Get it done faster. Sleep better. Eat better. Feel better. Liking yourself and your life is a drug. We always incorporate mind and body into the process, and I’ll help you create and stick to your plan (though we probably won’t call it that …). And when you aren’t stuck in doubt and worry, the things you’ll accomplish will blow your mind!
My promises
I will never impose an ideology on you.
A lot of coach-ey type people want you to adopt their personal belief system or their particular, individual theory of reality. They want you to accept the Law of Attraction or to constantly “challenge your comfort zones” (yuck). I will always meet you where you are, with your issues, and we will work around them. I will never ask you to “fake it til you make it” or to believe anything that doesn’t work with the way you interact with the world. We will play and explore with some of the things you believe to be true about the world, but I will never tell you what to think.
I’m a partner, not a cheerleader.
Of course I am thrilled when things are going great for you and may even do a little dance. And I am always available to talk you down if you are “having a moment”. But I’m not a big believer in all that you-can-do-it motivational fluff. I won’t attack you with smiley faces. We’re going to work on your stuff together, as teammates and as adults.
I will meet you where you are.
It’s not about you learning a system; it’s about adapting the system to the way you learn. We will never make you do things that make you feel uncomfortable, and if you get into a state of anxiety or worry while we’re working, I will help you out of it before we do anything else. And my programs come with a stress-free risk-free worry-free guarantee.
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