Friends of the Museum

For people who feel tingly about Self-Fluency and want to live this, and love this space.

Hey friend! My friend Nomi says that all the time and it always makes me smile. That is something I want to say more.

You love the work (and play) of Self-Fluency and Very Interior Design, you want to take part in this grand experiment, and we want to glow appreciation for you glowing appreciation in an ever-expanding circle of joy sparks.

Becoming a Friend Of is a way to glow Appreciation for what has been, keep this space alive, and be a secret agent of self-fluency with me. Best typo ever? I wrote secret angel the first time and didn’t notice.

What being a Friend Of looks like

You choose an upcoming calendar month to sponsor (map below) as an expression of Glowing Appreciation. We need at least six sponsors for each month to be able to make this work.

In addition to the joy of helping us solve the mysteries, you get:

  1. High level clearance in the form of access to the hidden Catacombs aka the entirety of the blog archives where you can read all past posts..
  2. A 20% discount at the museum gift shop and vending machine, good on any product offered there.
  3. We’re not mailing calendars this year but we designed a beautiful one anyway, so you’ll get access to the secret page where the images, superpowers and designs for each month live.
  4. Join me at The Secret Star Society for A Year of (Online) Rally! This will be a beautiful adventure, and it actually costs less to be a Friend Of than to just sign up for rally! This would be the way to go if you wanted to do that anyway.
  5. THE BEST ONE – “Operation Follow Clues”! Right now I have an offer where blog readers pay $36/month for four months during which I write up a storm, post on the blog, and they get an ebook collection of all the posts I write during that time. We will just add you to this list and you will get the ebook too.
  6. AND! Secret reduced price for Rendezvous/Rally time with me – all forms of private sessions or in person.
Sweet bonuses kick in when you sign up and are good through all of 2018


The Secret Star Society is a private online co-working space (though it is really so much more than that). A place where we can embark on internal investigations and work on (play with) our projects and wishes while practicing self-fluency. All while generating sparks of collective insight and shared epiphanies.

Just like we used to do at Rally at the Playground!

Secret Star Society Rally goes for all of 2018.

My primary Rally project will be learning how to have (or be?) a traveling secret agency and my proxy project is that I am Getting To The PT, which is both the point and also my physical therapy.

You do not at all need to know what your projects will be, since they will reveal themselves anyway once we start playing. You can also use it as a place to skip stones, journal, process wishes, meet Incoming you, get inspired, or just knock stuff off your list in the company of really great people and the most supportive culture ever.

If it is super fun, which I imagine it will be, I’ll probably want to do more rallying. And knowing how I end up doing things, it is safe to assume I’ll offer the new one at a way reduced rate for Friends Of. Or, if lots of people sign up for Friends Of, then we will just extend our playtime and rally as long as we want!

The upcoming months (and superpowers) looking for agents to sponsor them!

November is the month of Meaning — A Breath of Awe
December is the month of Ease — Effortless Release, Relaxed and Positive
January is Majesty — At Ease In Powerful Presence 
February is Perspective — Discernment + Clues Everywhere
March is Jewels — Wild Self Treasuring
April is Buoyancy  — Irrepressible Hope + Trust In Process

How to sign up!

Basic setup will be this: You choose a month from the list, you are a secret agent benefactor friend-of for that month, we adore you madly, and you get to enjoy all the benefits of being a Friend Of between now and December 31, 2018.

Payment: The best deal is $600, paid all at once. If you need a little extra time, leave a deposit of $180 now to choose your month, and then make a final payment of $453 when your month comes around.

Again, bonuses are good from when you sign up now until the end of 2018 (that’s fourteen months if you sign up in November).

All at once!

Deposit!

all the small-printables

  1. The internet tends to be a place where we can experience so much pressure, how often do we find ourselves saying yes to things in a state of fear-guilt or discomfort? Me too. Let’s not do that here, let’s do the opposite of that, let’s pause and breathe and come back to presence, so we can glow any yes that is our yes, with a full heart. With nervousness and anticipation? Sure. That can be part of the full heart experience for sure. But with love and I Am Here Now. Presence and more breath and imagining that we are expanding in our seats: two centimeters taller.
  2. Seriously. What if can do this from a state of thank you heart. Yes of course if you are buying something, we will deliver everything as promised, but for a moment just feel how different/special it feels to stand outside of the transactional realm, to be in pure thank you heart, and we will do the same, what a gift that is. Let’s let the bell of that echo and reverberate. Gratitude for each other and for this moment.
  3. We don’t do refunds or returns, we have a whole page about the thought process behind why that is, in addition to the administrative hassle side of things.
  4. I really dislike pressure (real or manufactured) to buy things as soon as possible, and at the same time we are definitely under deadline here, so the sooner you can help us out, the better it is for us. That said, as always, presence and breath and here-now surpass everything. So let’s do that!
  5. My loves, we are counting on you to honor your commitment when it comes to your month. We will remind you of course, and: we need you to show up. In my experience in over a decade of business online, the honor system works maybe 60-70% of the time in the best scenario, but I’m doing it now because we have a tight deadline and I know it will be easier for people to choose their month ahead of time. I am trusting hard that you all will do everything you can to help future-me be glad she took this risk. Thank you in advance!

And the postscripts.

  • I realize this won’t be an accessible option for everyone who is our friend, and I wish so hard I had a better solution for that and I am sorry. I treasure you and absolutely consider you a friend of all I do. When we have more time and bandwidth, I will work on other options (like this one).
  • I’m glowing big wild trust in All Timing Is Right Timing, so we can receive our yeses and stay attuned to clarity.
  • Please know I adore you madly, at all times, whether you can play with me now or not, whether you glow appreciation in the form of comments or a few dollars when you can or joining in all the fun, it does not change my feelings about you or this space. Unconditional love.

Glad you are on this adventure with me — thank you!
xox
havi