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		<title>By: How Copylicious inspired massive improvement to my About page</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/update/item-reference-to-badassery/comment-page-1/#comment-6500</link>
		<dc:creator>How Copylicious inspired massive improvement to my About page</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 15:22:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] wasn&#8217;t completely annoying for the past few days. While I was avoiding the problem, I read Wednesday&#8217;s post on The Fluent Self by the amazing and brilliant Havi Brooks. She mentioned that Kelly Parkinson [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] wasn&#8217;t completely annoying for the past few days. While I was avoiding the problem, I read Wednesday&#8217;s post on The Fluent Self by the amazing and brilliant Havi Brooks. She mentioned that Kelly Parkinson [...]</p>
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		<title>By: emilylime</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/update/item-reference-to-badassery/comment-page-1/#comment-6468</link>
		<dc:creator>emilylime</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 20:52:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ooh, ooh, this might be of interest!

http://www.badassoftheweek.com/list.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ooh, ooh, this might be of interest!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.badassoftheweek.com/list.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.badassoftheweek.com/list.html</a></p>
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		<title>By: Jenny, Bloggess</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/update/item-reference-to-badassery/comment-page-1/#comment-6462</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenny, Bloggess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 19:23:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love, love, love this.

Now I&#039;m off to explore.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Jenny, Bloggesss last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://thebloggess.com/?p=3306&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;They&#039;re sort of like re-runs but if you have short-term memory loss they&#039;re practically new.  Plus two of them are new today so technically I don&#039;t even know why I have this disclaimer.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love, love, love this.</p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m off to explore.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Jenny, Bloggesss last blog post..<a href="http://thebloggess.com/?p=3306" rel="nofollow">They&#8217;re sort of like re-runs but if you have short-term memory loss they&#8217;re practically new.  Plus two of them are new today so technically I don&#8217;t even know why I have this disclaimer.</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Pirate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pirate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 12:33:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here is the thing I am thinking about:

I have a habit of thinking of myself as a sort of boring, non-adventurous person, and yet people don&#039;t see me that way. So I started looking at myself through their eyes, to see what they see.

I had always thought that if I could do something, it wasn&#039;t hard at all. No, if I managed to do it, it could not have been challenging. Or difficult. Or anything like that - it was obviously simple and easy, or I never would have accomplished it. Challenging things were for other people, not me.

Then I realized what other people see. I have five piercings, and only three of them are in my earlobes where they &quot;belong&quot;. I changed the spelling of my name because I felt like it, and made it legal too. I picked up and moved five states away because I didn&#039;t like where I was (New Jersey). I bought a log house on top of a mountain. I bought a car with a manual transmission before I really knew how to drive it. And more.

Damn, I&#039;m a badass too! :)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Pirates last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://knittingpirate.com/2009/07/15/in-which-the-pirate-sketches/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;In Which the Pirate Sketches.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is the thing I am thinking about:</p>
<p>I have a habit of thinking of myself as a sort of boring, non-adventurous person, and yet people don&#8217;t see me that way. So I started looking at myself through their eyes, to see what they see.</p>
<p>I had always thought that if I could do something, it wasn&#8217;t hard at all. No, if I managed to do it, it could not have been challenging. Or difficult. Or anything like that &#8211; it was obviously simple and easy, or I never would have accomplished it. Challenging things were for other people, not me.</p>
<p>Then I realized what other people see. I have five piercings, and only three of them are in my earlobes where they &#8220;belong&#8221;. I changed the spelling of my name because I felt like it, and made it legal too. I picked up and moved five states away because I didn&#8217;t like where I was (New Jersey). I bought a log house on top of a mountain. I bought a car with a manual transmission before I really knew how to drive it. And more.</p>
<p>Damn, I&#8217;m a badass too! :)</p>
<p><abbr><em>Pirates last blog post..<a href="http://knittingpirate.com/2009/07/15/in-which-the-pirate-sketches/" rel="nofollow">In Which the Pirate Sketches.</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Lassner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa Lassner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 10:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Havi, Today I decided to create my own personal ad.  I&#039;m hoping you can boost the signal.  I&#039;m a photographer by passion (lassnerphoto.com) and I&#039;m looking for someone who specializes in helping people with body image issues.  I would like to collaborate, to help people get images of themselves that they can learn to love.  If you know someone you can connect me with, please let me know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Havi, Today I decided to create my own personal ad.  I&#8217;m hoping you can boost the signal.  I&#8217;m a photographer by passion (lassnerphoto.com) and I&#8217;m looking for someone who specializes in helping people with body image issues.  I would like to collaborate, to help people get images of themselves that they can learn to love.  If you know someone you can connect me with, please let me know.</p>
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		<title>By: Lean Ni Chuilleanain (@leannich)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lean Ni Chuilleanain (@leannich)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 10:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In my totally illogical, internal, unspoken classification of blogs, yours tends to go with Chiller (chiller.livejournal.com) - though hers is completely personal, not commercial at all.

Things I&#039;ve been thinking about include utter terror about putting myself out there online. Not that I haven&#039;t been doing it for years, in one form or another, but I&#039;ve just started a new blog, and this one&#039;s different. The quantity of mental and emotional slime that it&#039;s dredging up is surprising me, even though I knew there&#039;d be some.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Lean Ni Chuilleanain (@leannich)s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.string-revolution.com/?p=156&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Six Tips for Designing Knitting Patterns&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my totally illogical, internal, unspoken classification of blogs, yours tends to go with Chiller (chiller.livejournal.com) &#8211; though hers is completely personal, not commercial at all.</p>
<p>Things I&#8217;ve been thinking about include utter terror about putting myself out there online. Not that I haven&#8217;t been doing it for years, in one form or another, but I&#8217;ve just started a new blog, and this one&#8217;s different. The quantity of mental and emotional slime that it&#8217;s dredging up is surprising me, even though I knew there&#8217;d be some.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Lean Ni Chuilleanain (@leannich)s last blog post..<a href="http://www.string-revolution.com/?p=156" rel="nofollow">Six Tips for Designing Knitting Patterns</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Wormy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wormy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 09:38:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice, nice, nice. I do love Item! posts. Such great exploring to be done and as they come with a &quot;Havi recommendation&quot; you know they&#039;re going to kick ass. Just off to read about badassess...

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Wormys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://thesecretlifeofwormhill.wordpress.com/2009/07/16/i-have-a-dominatrix-in-my-shoulder-blades/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I have a Dominatrix in my shoulder blades.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice, nice, nice. I do love Item! posts. Such great exploring to be done and as they come with a &#8220;Havi recommendation&#8221; you know they&#8217;re going to kick ass. Just off to read about badassess&#8230;</p>
<p><abbr><em>Wormys last blog post..<a href="http://thesecretlifeofwormhill.wordpress.com/2009/07/16/i-have-a-dominatrix-in-my-shoulder-blades/" rel="nofollow">I have a Dominatrix in my shoulder blades.</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Christina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 23:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a couple of sites that say &quot;Havi&quot; to me. 

If you liked awkward family photos (and I believe you do) you also might like awkward theatre publicity shots:

http://inaproductionof.blogspot.com/

And in keeping with the theatre theme a new theatre company with some really fresh and funny writing. 

http://thisistheroom.com/

Enjoy!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Christinas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tentativeequinox.wordpress.com/2009/07/09/quick-biopsy-update/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Quick biopsy update&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a couple of sites that say &#8220;Havi&#8221; to me. </p>
<p>If you liked awkward family photos (and I believe you do) you also might like awkward theatre publicity shots:</p>
<p><a href="http://inaproductionof.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">http://inaproductionof.blogspot.com/</a></p>
<p>And in keeping with the theatre theme a new theatre company with some really fresh and funny writing. </p>
<p><a href="http://thisistheroom.com/" rel="nofollow">http://thisistheroom.com/</a></p>
<p>Enjoy!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Christinas last blog post..<a href="http://tentativeequinox.wordpress.com/2009/07/09/quick-biopsy-update/" rel="nofollow">Quick biopsy update</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Mike Stankavich</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Stankavich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:59:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you thank you thank you for sharing Kelly&#039;s copylicious link - it was very timely as I am developing my about page for http://mikestankavich.com today.

What I&#039;m thinking about? That damn about page of course :P How to pack a lifetime of experiences (well, half a lifetime at least - I hope I&#039;m not quite dead yet) into a couple of paragraphs. 

For blogs I&#039;m enjoying, I thought of one that I found a while back. Check out http://thinksimplenow.com/. Beautiful and appropriate photography, and clean, well thought out writing. Love it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you thank you thank you for sharing Kelly&#8217;s copylicious link &#8211; it was very timely as I am developing my about page for <a href="http://mikestankavich.com" rel="nofollow">http://mikestankavich.com</a> today.</p>
<p>What I&#8217;m thinking about? That damn about page of course :P How to pack a lifetime of experiences (well, half a lifetime at least &#8211; I hope I&#8217;m not quite dead yet) into a couple of paragraphs. </p>
<p>For blogs I&#8217;m enjoying, I thought of one that I found a while back. Check out <a href="http://thinksimplenow.com/" rel="nofollow">http://thinksimplenow.com/</a>. Beautiful and appropriate photography, and clean, well thought out writing. Love it!</p>
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		<title>By: alice</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/update/item-reference-to-badassery/comment-page-1/#comment-6412</link>
		<dc:creator>alice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 19:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my god, you wrote about me! I was just reading this post and feeling love for Colleen (Colleen Wainwright! Colleen Wainwright!) and thinking, &quot;Sigh. Maybe someday Havi will mention me? Oh, it&#039;s foolish to think so. Go back to your cave, Alice.&quot; And then there I was! You cannot imagine the thrill I just experienced. 

I love it when I discover incredible new people. The Internet really, truly does not suck sometimes.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;alices last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.finslippy.com/finslippy/2009/07/unclean-.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;UNCLEAN!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my god, you wrote about me! I was just reading this post and feeling love for Colleen (Colleen Wainwright! Colleen Wainwright!) and thinking, &#8220;Sigh. Maybe someday Havi will mention me? Oh, it&#8217;s foolish to think so. Go back to your cave, Alice.&#8221; And then there I was! You cannot imagine the thrill I just experienced. </p>
<p>I love it when I discover incredible new people. The Internet really, truly does not suck sometimes.</p>
<p><abbr><em>alices last blog post..<a href="http://www.finslippy.com/finslippy/2009/07/unclean-.html" rel="nofollow">UNCLEAN!</a></em></abbr></p>
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