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		<title>By: A.Venefica</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/update/havis-insecurities-blogging-live-from-sxsw/comment-page-1/#comment-3783</link>
		<dc:creator>A.Venefica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 07:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Havi,

FYI: Your link love for Charlie (at http://www.productiveflourishing.com/) is incomplete (the .com was dropped).

Peace out,
A.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Havi,</p>
<p>FYI: Your link love for Charlie (at <a href="http://www.productiveflourishing.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.productiveflourishing.com/</a>) is incomplete (the .com was dropped).</p>
<p>Peace out,<br />
A.</p>
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		<title>By: Hannah</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/update/havis-insecurities-blogging-live-from-sxsw/comment-page-1/#comment-3742</link>
		<dc:creator>Hannah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 14:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Havi!

I once heard a story of a scientist who organized an ENTIRE CONFERENCE.... without any actual events. So the infrastructure of a conference was there, the hotels, the dinners, the meeting space. Just not the keynote speakers and the tiring talks. His philosophy was that conferences are all about meeting people anyway.

I hear it was a huge success.

Best wishes from Belgium!

Hannah

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Hannahs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://wall-writing.blogspot.com/2008/07/in-absence-of-new-posts.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;In the absence of new posts...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Havi!</p>
<p>I once heard a story of a scientist who organized an ENTIRE CONFERENCE&#8230;. without any actual events. So the infrastructure of a conference was there, the hotels, the dinners, the meeting space. Just not the keynote speakers and the tiring talks. His philosophy was that conferences are all about meeting people anyway.</p>
<p>I hear it was a huge success.</p>
<p>Best wishes from Belgium!</p>
<p>Hannah</p>
<p><abbr><em>Hannahs last blog post..<a href="http://wall-writing.blogspot.com/2008/07/in-absence-of-new-posts.html" rel="nofollow">In the absence of new posts&#8230;</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: the communicatrix</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/update/havis-insecurities-blogging-live-from-sxsw/comment-page-1/#comment-3717</link>
		<dc:creator>the communicatrix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 04:51:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thus is the magic of SXSW. You go to be there, to experience being there, and to observe how you experience the being there.

So very zen for a big, drunken nerdfest, no?

I love it, too.

Also, my thought bubbles just told your thought bubbles to take a long walk off a short pier.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;the communicatrixs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Communicatrix/~3/ZQr0gWXdwMY/lessons-from-sxsw-why-i-go-and-why-i-keep-coming-back.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Lessons from SXSW: Why I go, and why I keep coming back&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thus is the magic of SXSW. You go to be there, to experience being there, and to observe how you experience the being there.</p>
<p>So very zen for a big, drunken nerdfest, no?</p>
<p>I love it, too.</p>
<p>Also, my thought bubbles just told your thought bubbles to take a long walk off a short pier.</p>
<p><abbr><em>the communicatrixs last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Communicatrix/~3/ZQr0gWXdwMY/lessons-from-sxsw-why-i-go-and-why-i-keep-coming-back.html" rel="nofollow">Lessons from SXSW: Why I go, and why I keep coming back</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Karl Staib - Work Happy Now</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karl Staib - Work Happy Now</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 17:33:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with all my heart. I was insecure about meeting Havi here at sxsw. But she was super cool. She exceeded my expectations.

We need to listen to that little voice of insecurity, but not let it make our choices. If we did we wouldn&#039;t do half the cool stuff that have made great memories.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Karl Staib - Work Happy Nows last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.workhappynow.com/2009/03/professional-growth-the-google-way/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Professional Growth the Google Way&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with all my heart. I was insecure about meeting Havi here at sxsw. But she was super cool. She exceeded my expectations.</p>
<p>We need to listen to that little voice of insecurity, but not let it make our choices. If we did we wouldn&#8217;t do half the cool stuff that have made great memories.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Karl Staib &#8211; Work Happy Nows last blog post..<a href="http://www.workhappynow.com/2009/03/professional-growth-the-google-way/" rel="nofollow">Professional Growth the Google Way</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Google Reader Neglect &#171; A Spring-ey Little Cocktail for Your Gray Matter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Google Reader Neglect &#171; A Spring-ey Little Cocktail for Your Gray Matter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 18:40:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] ~Fluent Self Havi&#8217;s Insecurities blogging live from SXSW(talking about meeting internet friends in person and dealing with your thought bubble trouble) [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] ~Fluent Self Havi&#8217;s Insecurities blogging live from SXSW(talking about meeting internet friends in person and dealing with your thought bubble trouble) [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 18:25:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*pouts*  I&#039;m not at SXSW either.  I barely know what it is besides where all the bloggers I wanna meet are.  lol

Stu is just hard of hearing, box his &quot;ears&quot; maybe he won&#039;t mis-quote you anymore.  lol 

My own thought bubble: How the hell do you spell misquote/miss quote/mis-quote anyway?  *confusion*

I&#039;m excited for the epiphany.  I can&#039;t wait til you&#039;re ready to share.  =)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Melissas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://noexcusesbehavior.wordpress.com/2009/03/05/amazon-sellin/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Amazon Sellin&#039;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*pouts*  I&#8217;m not at SXSW either.  I barely know what it is besides where all the bloggers I wanna meet are.  lol</p>
<p>Stu is just hard of hearing, box his &#8220;ears&#8221; maybe he won&#8217;t mis-quote you anymore.  lol </p>
<p>My own thought bubble: How the hell do you spell misquote/miss quote/mis-quote anyway?  *confusion*</p>
<p>I&#8217;m excited for the epiphany.  I can&#8217;t wait til you&#8217;re ready to share.  =)</p>
<p><abbr><em>Melissas last blog post..<a href="http://noexcusesbehavior.wordpress.com/2009/03/05/amazon-sellin/" rel="nofollow">Amazon Sellin&#8217;</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Marissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 17:32:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Even though I&#039;m not physically around anyone at SXSW on a day-to-day basis, not being there has made me feel incredibly lonely!

I totally feel like I&#039;m missing out and that everyone in the world is there having a great time and meeting each other and hanging out and I am the only person who is not there soaking it all in, and it has actually made me feel noticeably down. Like all the cool kids got to go on this really awesome week-long field trip and I didn&#039;t get my permission slip turned in on time and couldn&#039;t go.

(Yeah, insert a self-directed &quot;Sheesh!!&quot; here. Because, seriously Marissa. Over it, you must get.)

So... (a) there go my insecurities to play on the Insecurity Playground with your thought bubbles, Havi! :) and (b) Johnny, yay! there&#039;s someone else who&#039;s not there so I know that at least I&#039;m not the *only* one. Did you forget your permission slip too?! haha

I&#039;m definitely planning on going to next year&#039;s SXSW. (And my insecurities respond with, &quot;There&#039;s no way it will be as fun or as cool or as full of people you adore as this one was.&quot;)  If my insecurities had shins, I would totally kick them.

Sigh. Silly insecurities. It&#039;s time for you to go find somewhere else to play. My brain has other things to focus on.

I&#039;m so glad that you&#039;re getting big breakthroughs for your arms! That is AWESOME news. I&#039;m so happy for you! Hopefully you&#039;ll be on a fast(er?) track to pain-free arms very, very soon. HUGS!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Marissas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/dailystruggles/~3/OArWGbkxrPI/totally-true-fairy-tales-1-happy-birthday-havi.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Totally True Fairy Tales #1: Happy Birthday, Havi&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even though I&#8217;m not physically around anyone at SXSW on a day-to-day basis, not being there has made me feel incredibly lonely!</p>
<p>I totally feel like I&#8217;m missing out and that everyone in the world is there having a great time and meeting each other and hanging out and I am the only person who is not there soaking it all in, and it has actually made me feel noticeably down. Like all the cool kids got to go on this really awesome week-long field trip and I didn&#8217;t get my permission slip turned in on time and couldn&#8217;t go.</p>
<p>(Yeah, insert a self-directed &#8220;Sheesh!!&#8221; here. Because, seriously Marissa. Over it, you must get.)</p>
<p>So&#8230; (a) there go my insecurities to play on the Insecurity Playground with your thought bubbles, Havi! :) and (b) Johnny, yay! there&#8217;s someone else who&#8217;s not there so I know that at least I&#8217;m not the *only* one. Did you forget your permission slip too?! haha</p>
<p>I&#8217;m definitely planning on going to next year&#8217;s SXSW. (And my insecurities respond with, &#8220;There&#8217;s no way it will be as fun or as cool or as full of people you adore as this one was.&#8221;)  If my insecurities had shins, I would totally kick them.</p>
<p>Sigh. Silly insecurities. It&#8217;s time for you to go find somewhere else to play. My brain has other things to focus on.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so glad that you&#8217;re getting big breakthroughs for your arms! That is AWESOME news. I&#8217;m so happy for you! Hopefully you&#8217;ll be on a fast(er?) track to pain-free arms very, very soon. HUGS!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Marissas last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/dailystruggles/~3/OArWGbkxrPI/totally-true-fairy-tales-1-happy-birthday-havi.html" rel="nofollow">Totally True Fairy Tales #1: Happy Birthday, Havi</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Heidi Fischbach</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heidi Fischbach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 12:19:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Havi,

Yay yay yay... Thanks for letting us peek into your mind and heart... I love your thought bubbles, love Stu, love Selma, love how much you show up with so much love and humor and that you tell about it so I can live it too... Thanks for not keeping you to yourself. I&#039;m excited about the realization, whatever it is!

Love,

Heidi

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Heidi Fischbachs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://babayagasplace.squarespace.com/heidi-musings/2009/3/13/waiting-a-la-isadora-duncan-walking-in-mommas-heels.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Waiting a-la-Isadora Duncan &amp; walking in momma&#039;s heels&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Havi,</p>
<p>Yay yay yay&#8230; Thanks for letting us peek into your mind and heart&#8230; I love your thought bubbles, love Stu, love Selma, love how much you show up with so much love and humor and that you tell about it so I can live it too&#8230; Thanks for not keeping you to yourself. I&#8217;m excited about the realization, whatever it is!</p>
<p>Love,</p>
<p>Heidi</p>
<p><abbr><em>Heidi Fischbachs last blog post..<a href="http://babayagasplace.squarespace.com/heidi-musings/2009/3/13/waiting-a-la-isadora-duncan-walking-in-mommas-heels.html" rel="nofollow">Waiting a-la-Isadora Duncan &amp; walking in momma&#8217;s heels</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Johnny B. Truant</title>
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		<dc:creator>Johnny B. Truant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 12:15:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This SXSW thing is really messing me up as a person who isn&#039;t there. I can&#039;t get a response from any of the participants. I sent Pace in there to bug some people to email me or something and I&#039;m sure she&#039;s busting heads, but I actually think that Austin must be a big black hole. Or a Cone of Silence like on Get Smart.

Someone tell Naomi to email me. Also, my latest post is about goats.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Johnny B. Truants last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theeconomyisnthappening.com/blog/personal-musings/goat-goat-goat-goat/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;This goat is your goat, this goat is my goat&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This SXSW thing is really messing me up as a person who isn&#8217;t there. I can&#8217;t get a response from any of the participants. I sent Pace in there to bug some people to email me or something and I&#8217;m sure she&#8217;s busting heads, but I actually think that Austin must be a big black hole. Or a Cone of Silence like on Get Smart.</p>
<p>Someone tell Naomi to email me. Also, my latest post is about goats.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Johnny B. Truants last blog post..<a href="http://www.theeconomyisnthappening.com/blog/personal-musings/goat-goat-goat-goat/" rel="nofollow">This goat is your goat, this goat is my goat</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: chris zydel</title>
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		<dc:creator>chris zydel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 05:58:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Sweetie,

Yay for the realizations!! 

 I&#039;ve had some pretty severe and debilitating bordering on crippling lower back pain that had a huge emotional core to it. Once I got some clarity on what was going on on that emotional level it pretty much cleared up and hasn&#039;t been seen since. That mind body connection is just so incredibly trippy! So good luck with your continued healing and I&#039;m hoping that all of your inner work will bring you to a pain free body very, very soon!

Hugs and love,

Chris

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;chris zydels last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://creativejuicesarts.blogs.com/creativejuicesarts/2009/03/catastrophes-r-no-longer-us.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;CATASTROPHES R ( NO LONGER) US&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Sweetie,</p>
<p>Yay for the realizations!! </p>
<p> I&#8217;ve had some pretty severe and debilitating bordering on crippling lower back pain that had a huge emotional core to it. Once I got some clarity on what was going on on that emotional level it pretty much cleared up and hasn&#8217;t been seen since. That mind body connection is just so incredibly trippy! So good luck with your continued healing and I&#8217;m hoping that all of your inner work will bring you to a pain free body very, very soon!</p>
<p>Hugs and love,</p>
<p>Chris</p>
<p><abbr><em>chris zydels last blog post..<a href="http://creativejuicesarts.blogs.com/creativejuicesarts/2009/03/catastrophes-r-no-longer-us.html" rel="nofollow">CATASTROPHES R ( NO LONGER) US</a></em></abbr></p>
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