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	<title>Comments on: Friday Check-in #17: the &#8220;you can&#8217;t make me&#8221; edition</title>
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		<title>By: Sonia Simone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sonia Simone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 01:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Super grrrrr for you on the forum thing. Ptui.

Re Chabon, it&#039;s the four kids. That will beat the inner child out of anybody. I wish he could write two books a year that were as wonderful as Yiddish Policemen. I still wouldn&#039;t have enough to read, but it would help. (I keep thinking of it as the Yiddish Policeman&#039;s Other Ball, though. Which is bad.)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Sonia Simones last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheRemarkableCommunicationBlog/~3/466651441/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Dumb Things Small Businesses Do #6: Ingratitude&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Super grrrrr for you on the forum thing. Ptui.</p>
<p>Re Chabon, it&#8217;s the four kids. That will beat the inner child out of anybody. I wish he could write two books a year that were as wonderful as Yiddish Policemen. I still wouldn&#8217;t have enough to read, but it would help. (I keep thinking of it as the Yiddish Policeman&#8217;s Other Ball, though. Which is bad.)</p>
<p><abbr><em>Sonia Simones last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheRemarkableCommunicationBlog/~3/466651441/" rel="nofollow">Dumb Things Small Businesses Do #6: Ingratitude</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Justin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 21:10:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Was busy Friday, but hugs re: thieving jerk-noodles.

Just a note: I&#039;m saving to get Dance of Shiva for myself for Christmas because I sense the awesomeness and I want it. Thanks for making it available.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Justins last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://bornagainblog.wordpress.com/2008/11/29/topless/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Life is Improv: Topless.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Was busy Friday, but hugs re: thieving jerk-noodles.</p>
<p>Just a note: I&#8217;m saving to get Dance of Shiva for myself for Christmas because I sense the awesomeness and I want it. Thanks for making it available.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Justins last blog post..<a href="http://bornagainblog.wordpress.com/2008/11/29/topless/" rel="nofollow">Life is Improv: Topless.</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Havi Brooks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Havi Brooks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 16:59:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;img src=&quot;http://fluentself.com/images/blog/ducks/Selma_tinyW.png&quot;&gt; Thanks, guys! You&#039;re all awesome for cheering me on and up and all the other ways you cheer me. 

@Hilary - Agree with you on the Christmas thing. I pretty much never am inclined to be &quot;merry&quot; and having it wished a thousand times a day can be tiresome. Also the tinsel. 

Though I figure what they mean is that they want everyone to be happy so I can kind of get on board with that. Kind of. 

@Eileen - EXACTLY! You totally nailed it. 

Sigh. 

Love you all. Thanks for doing Fridays with me. It means a lot to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://fluentself.com/images/blog/ducks/Selma_tinyW.png"/> Thanks, guys! You&#8217;re all awesome for cheering me on and up and all the other ways you cheer me. </p>
<p>@Hilary &#8211; Agree with you on the Christmas thing. I pretty much never am inclined to be &#8220;merry&#8221; and having it wished a thousand times a day can be tiresome. Also the tinsel. </p>
<p>Though I figure what they mean is that they want everyone to be happy so I can kind of get on board with that. Kind of. </p>
<p>@Eileen &#8211; EXACTLY! You totally nailed it. </p>
<p>Sigh. </p>
<p>Love you all. Thanks for doing Fridays with me. It means a lot to me.</p>
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		<title>By: LifeMadeGreat - Juliet</title>
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		<dc:creator>LifeMadeGreat - Juliet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 15:45:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hugs,
Juliet
:)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;LifeMadeGreat - Juliets last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LifemadegreatBlog/~3/465204694/blog.aspx&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Value of Knowing Your Values&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hugs,<br />
Juliet<br />
:)</p>
<p><abbr><em>LifeMadeGreat &#8211; Juliets last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LifemadegreatBlog/~3/465204694/blog.aspx" rel="nofollow">The Value of Knowing Your Values</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 11:24:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Havi, that totally sucks. Sorry it happened to someone as awesome as you - maybe some of the people who got the link will love what they see SO much that they&#039;ll come back and BUY all your products! Hey, it could happen! :)

Congrats on Hoppy House - I&#039;m glad you love it as much as you hoped you would</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Havi, that totally sucks. Sorry it happened to someone as awesome as you &#8211; maybe some of the people who got the link will love what they see SO much that they&#8217;ll come back and BUY all your products! Hey, it could happen! :)</p>
<p>Congrats on Hoppy House &#8211; I&#8217;m glad you love it as much as you hoped you would</p>
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		<title>By: Karen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 07:19:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s so interesting how different people&#039;s minds work--it would never occur to me to spread a link around. But, then again, I&#039;ve been &quot;teased&quot; for being so honourable. I think I&#039;ve become part of the minority in this land of entitlement. It&#039;s too bad and to do it to someone with such good intention(s) just shows how lifeless that person is.

What about &quot;Mysteries of Pittsburgh?&quot; :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s so interesting how different people&#8217;s minds work&#8211;it would never occur to me to spread a link around. But, then again, I&#8217;ve been &#8220;teased&#8221; for being so honourable. I think I&#8217;ve become part of the minority in this land of entitlement. It&#8217;s too bad and to do it to someone with such good intention(s) just shows how lifeless that person is.</p>
<p>What about &#8220;Mysteries of Pittsburgh?&#8221; :-)</p>
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		<title>By: Hilary</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hilary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 07:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m with you on the whole interfering-with-normal-routine thing. Fortunately for me we don&#039;t do Thanksgiving in Australia - I don&#039;t even know what it&#039;s for. Thanking someone for something I suppose. But I have to try very hard not to get a little bit depressed at christmas time. You just can&#039;t seem to pretend everything is normal and get on with things. People are in your face everywhere wishing you merriness and tinsel gets under your feet and in your hair. Something I am not grateful for is what I&#039;m trying to say, though I am grateful for the oportunity to rant a bit.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Hilarys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://pollity.wordpress.com/2008/11/29/passion-in-the-soul-that-has-everything/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Passion in the soul that has everything&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m with you on the whole interfering-with-normal-routine thing. Fortunately for me we don&#8217;t do Thanksgiving in Australia &#8211; I don&#8217;t even know what it&#8217;s for. Thanking someone for something I suppose. But I have to try very hard not to get a little bit depressed at christmas time. You just can&#8217;t seem to pretend everything is normal and get on with things. People are in your face everywhere wishing you merriness and tinsel gets under your feet and in your hair. Something I am not grateful for is what I&#8217;m trying to say, though I am grateful for the oportunity to rant a bit.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Hilarys last blog post..<a href="http://pollity.wordpress.com/2008/11/29/passion-in-the-soul-that-has-everything/" rel="nofollow">Passion in the soul that has everything</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Eileen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eileen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 02:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aww, that sucks about people stealing your stuff!  Big hug.

I&#039;m not sure I understand how people could STEAL something that is about being HONEST with yourself about your stuff. 

It reminds me of when a good friend of mine had a painting stolen from a group art show we were in. Like, is someone going to hang a STOLEN painting on their wall and really be able to enjoy its beauty, knowing where they got it? Ouch. Does Not Compute.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aww, that sucks about people stealing your stuff!  Big hug.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure I understand how people could STEAL something that is about being HONEST with yourself about your stuff. </p>
<p>It reminds me of when a good friend of mine had a painting stolen from a group art show we were in. Like, is someone going to hang a STOLEN painting on their wall and really be able to enjoy its beauty, knowing where they got it? Ouch. Does Not Compute.</p>
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		<title>By: Johnny Truant</title>
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		<dc:creator>Johnny Truant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 02:04:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@GirlPie - Actually, I think it&#039;s no coincidence that it&#039;s probably HAVI&#039;S favorite. She sabotaged the CL. 

What? Everyone&#039;s not riveted by our sideline discussion? NO WAI!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Johnny Truants last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theeconomyisnthappening.com/blog/personal-musings/pants/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Unfortunately, pants&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@GirlPie &#8211; Actually, I think it&#8217;s no coincidence that it&#8217;s probably HAVI&#8217;S favorite. She sabotaged the CL. </p>
<p>What? Everyone&#8217;s not riveted by our sideline discussion? NO WAI!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Johnny Truants last blog post..<a href="http://www.theeconomyisnthappening.com/blog/personal-musings/pants/" rel="nofollow">Unfortunately, pants</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: GirlPie</title>
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		<dc:creator>GirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 01:43:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@JohnnyTruant -- Nope, comment-luv isn&#039;t broken; &quot;Unfortunately, Pants&quot; is its favorite, that&#039;s all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@JohnnyTruant &#8212; Nope, comment-luv isn&#8217;t broken; &#8220;Unfortunately, Pants&#8221; is its favorite, that&#8217;s all.</p>
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