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		<title>By: monday morning motivator! &#8212; creative lifestyles</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/update/extra-weirdnesses-edition/comment-page-1/#comment-1797</link>
		<dc:creator>monday morning motivator! &#8212; creative lifestyles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 15:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] i started a regular feature on this blog, the friday afternoon update! partially as a nod toward havi brooks, who has inspired me in more ways than i have the time to add up right now, and partially to make [...]</description>
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		<title>By: joyce lukaczer</title>
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		<dc:creator>joyce lukaczer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 22:30:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the havi effect:

gently/relentlessly initiates The Momentum ... but (key recognition for moi) no walls, only mirrors :)

much appreciation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the havi effect:</p>
<p>gently/relentlessly initiates The Momentum &#8230; but (key recognition for moi) no walls, only mirrors :)</p>
<p>much appreciation.</p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer Louden</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer Louden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 19:26:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are so amazing to keep mentioning me. Here&#039;s an email I got from Kathy signing up for the Writer&#039;s Retreat: &quot;I&#039;m so twitterpated at knowing Havi will be there that I can hardly stand myself.  Havi and Jen make sense to me.  I only hope that Selma will be able to attend as well.&quot; www.anniebinns.com)


As far as this week goes, I truly want to recap but my back is out again from sitting the desk chair too much already and it&#039;s sunny out so I must push away from the screen and head into the sun.

AND one of the many highlights of this week is getting to talk to you and feeling how right it is we are connected!

Yeah for Havi heart T-shirts!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Jennifer Loudens last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LoudenMouth/~3/424131648/comfort-during-fearful-times-acknowledgement-sweetie-baby-honey&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Comfort During Fearful Times: Acknowledgement Sweetie Baby Honey&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are so amazing to keep mentioning me. Here&#8217;s an email I got from Kathy signing up for the Writer&#8217;s Retreat: &#8220;I&#8217;m so twitterpated at knowing Havi will be there that I can hardly stand myself.  Havi and Jen make sense to me.  I only hope that Selma will be able to attend as well.&#8221; <a href="http://www.anniebinns.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.anniebinns.com</a>)</p>
<p>As far as this week goes, I truly want to recap but my back is out again from sitting the desk chair too much already and it&#8217;s sunny out so I must push away from the screen and head into the sun.</p>
<p>AND one of the many highlights of this week is getting to talk to you and feeling how right it is we are connected!</p>
<p>Yeah for Havi heart T-shirts!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Jennifer Loudens last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LoudenMouth/~3/424131648/comfort-during-fearful-times-acknowledgement-sweetie-baby-honey" rel="nofollow">Comfort During Fearful Times: Acknowledgement Sweetie Baby Honey</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Heidi Fischbach</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heidi Fischbach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 00:34:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK. Thing 1: big jealousy over here on gentleman friend AND awesome cook. Just one is good and amazing and all but both? Um, Havi? Amazing. Happy for you. (And, green over here).

Thing 2: Been doing more writing over here and getting to know and possibly even starting to make friends with being ADD. When a good friend oh-so-kindly mentioned the possibility of my being ADD a couple months ago, I pulled out my best &quot;hmmmm, that&#039;s interesting,&quot; even while inside I felt my defensive hairs growing into dreadlocks. So anyway, it&#039;s feeling a bit more peaceful inside. I&#039;m curious about all my mental activity, learning about how amazingly wonderful and creative the lives of women with ADD can be, and continually finding places where I am so calm and in presence, like with my bodywork clients.

Thing 3: I&#039;m on the end of week 2 of Couch-2-5K... I&#039;m psyched because getting out in fresh air and running is so good for me (esp. on account of thing 2) and it calms my inner restless dogs a-la-Cesar-Milan so that they have more room for lovely creative things. You can google &quot;c25k&quot; if any readers want to know. It&#039;s running for total wimps.

So good night then. Happy weekend with brother! How awesome is having your fave person right there with you!

xo heidi

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Heidi Fischbachs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://babayagasplace.squarespace.com/heidi-musings/2008/10/15/i-cant-get-sick-i-cant-get-sick-i-cant-get-sick-knock-on-woo.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I can&#039;t get sick. I can&#039;t get sick. I can&#039;t get sick. Knock on wood &amp; swallow garlic.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK. Thing 1: big jealousy over here on gentleman friend AND awesome cook. Just one is good and amazing and all but both? Um, Havi? Amazing. Happy for you. (And, green over here).</p>
<p>Thing 2: Been doing more writing over here and getting to know and possibly even starting to make friends with being ADD. When a good friend oh-so-kindly mentioned the possibility of my being ADD a couple months ago, I pulled out my best &#8220;hmmmm, that&#8217;s interesting,&#8221; even while inside I felt my defensive hairs growing into dreadlocks. So anyway, it&#8217;s feeling a bit more peaceful inside. I&#8217;m curious about all my mental activity, learning about how amazingly wonderful and creative the lives of women with ADD can be, and continually finding places where I am so calm and in presence, like with my bodywork clients.</p>
<p>Thing 3: I&#8217;m on the end of week 2 of Couch-2-5K&#8230; I&#8217;m psyched because getting out in fresh air and running is so good for me (esp. on account of thing 2) and it calms my inner restless dogs a-la-Cesar-Milan so that they have more room for lovely creative things. You can google &#8220;c25k&#8221; if any readers want to know. It&#8217;s running for total wimps.</p>
<p>So good night then. Happy weekend with brother! How awesome is having your fave person right there with you!</p>
<p>xo heidi</p>
<p><abbr><em>Heidi Fischbachs last blog post..<a href="http://babayagasplace.squarespace.com/heidi-musings/2008/10/15/i-cant-get-sick-i-cant-get-sick-i-cant-get-sick-knock-on-woo.html" rel="nofollow">I can&#8217;t get sick. I can&#8217;t get sick. I can&#8217;t get sick. Knock on wood &amp; swallow garlic.</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: friday afternoon update! &#8212; creative lifestyles</title>
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		<dc:creator>friday afternoon update! &#8212; creative lifestyles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 23:17:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] to bring it into reality. so welcome to the friday afternoon update!, my creative love child of a fluent self practice with some leveraging the universe insights and [...]</description>
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		<title>By: James &#124; Dancing Geek</title>
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		<dc:creator>James &#124; Dancing Geek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 19:53:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, yeah Chas, Havinauts!  That&#039;s our tribe!  Hmm, we have gear, next we need a song...

Sorry, Havi, I don&#039;t care how much you try and make out that Selma&#039;s in charge, we ain&#039;t fallin&#039; for it, you&#039;re just going to have to adjust to all the adulation! ;)

Bad: Repeating my usual pattern of not going to bed at anywhere near something that could strenuously be described as a reasonable hour - missing yoga because I was so tired, being late for pilates for same reason.  Getting a little obsessed with my latest project (new blog!) and then all the yuck around the not sleeping getting tied up with the new project so it wasn&#039;t as much fun anymore.

Good: Calming down on the new project so that I can still enjoy it.  Whizzing through the Shiva Nata stuff and having a great time with it.  Using Havi&#039;s clever techniques with my sister and my partner and both of them having big breakthroughs too! (And she wonders why we adore her?!)

Nothing particularly weird going on.  But then, it&#039;s all relative, right?

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;James &#124; Dancing Geeks last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/%7Er/DancingGeek/%7E3/422654940/my-tribe.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;My Tribe&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, yeah Chas, Havinauts!  That&#8217;s our tribe!  Hmm, we have gear, next we need a song&#8230;</p>
<p>Sorry, Havi, I don&#8217;t care how much you try and make out that Selma&#8217;s in charge, we ain&#8217;t fallin&#8217; for it, you&#8217;re just going to have to adjust to all the adulation! ;)</p>
<p>Bad: Repeating my usual pattern of not going to bed at anywhere near something that could strenuously be described as a reasonable hour &#8211; missing yoga because I was so tired, being late for pilates for same reason.  Getting a little obsessed with my latest project (new blog!) and then all the yuck around the not sleeping getting tied up with the new project so it wasn&#8217;t as much fun anymore.</p>
<p>Good: Calming down on the new project so that I can still enjoy it.  Whizzing through the Shiva Nata stuff and having a great time with it.  Using Havi&#8217;s clever techniques with my sister and my partner and both of them having big breakthroughs too! (And she wonders why we adore her?!)</p>
<p>Nothing particularly weird going on.  But then, it&#8217;s all relative, right?</p>
<p><abbr><em>James | Dancing Geeks last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/%7Er/DancingGeek/%7E3/422654940/my-tribe.html" rel="nofollow">My Tribe</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Kate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 19:43:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;cite&gt;For example, a very, very thin-crusted toasted pizza with leeks, pear and vintage cheddar. YUM!&lt;/cite&gt;

zomg, that sounds good. Big envy. I need a gentleman friend to feed me; I suck at food. I used to have one, it was brilliant, but eventually he decided he wanted his own life, which was very inconsiderate of him.

&lt;cite&gt;people are selling I â™¥ Havi t-shirts&lt;/cite&gt;

Dude! That rocks! You wiiin!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><cite>For example, a very, very thin-crusted toasted pizza with leeks, pear and vintage cheddar. YUM!</cite></p>
<p>zomg, that sounds good. Big envy. I need a gentleman friend to feed me; I suck at food. I used to have one, it was brilliant, but eventually he decided he wanted his own life, which was very inconsiderate of him.</p>
<p><cite>people are selling I â™¥ Havi t-shirts</cite></p>
<p>Dude! That rocks! You wiiin!</p>
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		<title>By: Sundi D. Hayes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sundi D. Hayes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 19:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Disclaimer: I don&#039;t want Havi&#039;s mellow peeps to think I&#039;m hitting you up for biz. All this stuff really happened and I wouldn&#039;t make it up to toot my own horn!  Besides that, Selma might get mad at me.

The bad:  My husband has been gone all week on an unexpected 8 day trip for a company he isn&#039;t supposed to be traveling more than two days at a time for...he will be missing all the family stuff this weekend (3 kids, 2 soccer teams, 3 games total) and I&#039;m carrying a lot(mom-of-three-jobland-my-biz)!

The weird (in an uncomfortable good way):  I had a first last night. I attended a networking event where another attendee was actually a client. He introduced me to a bunch of people and was talking up my svcs in a way I&#039;d never dreamed.  I was totally speechless which is difficult to do in normal situations.  Compliments are great during a one-on-one exchange - I&#039;d just never had anyone do it about my svcs in a room of 150 people.  It even happened from the pres. of the group when I gave away my door prize. Totally weird, never happened before experience for me and it is really paying off...less than 18 hours after the event I&#039;ve had two phone calls from people who were at the event interested in my stuff.  Yeah for me, yeah for my biz!

The good:  Thank the Universe for grandpa because he watched the kids for me so I could still go to said event.

The good:  Sans husband hasn&#039;t really been so bad because the weather has been yuck and three soccer practices have been cancelled. Yeah for me! So, instead of running around the country-side I&#039;ve had three quality nights at home with my kids.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Disclaimer: I don&#8217;t want Havi&#8217;s mellow peeps to think I&#8217;m hitting you up for biz. All this stuff really happened and I wouldn&#8217;t make it up to toot my own horn!  Besides that, Selma might get mad at me.</p>
<p>The bad:  My husband has been gone all week on an unexpected 8 day trip for a company he isn&#8217;t supposed to be traveling more than two days at a time for&#8230;he will be missing all the family stuff this weekend (3 kids, 2 soccer teams, 3 games total) and I&#8217;m carrying a lot(mom-of-three-jobland-my-biz)!</p>
<p>The weird (in an uncomfortable good way):  I had a first last night. I attended a networking event where another attendee was actually a client. He introduced me to a bunch of people and was talking up my svcs in a way I&#8217;d never dreamed.  I was totally speechless which is difficult to do in normal situations.  Compliments are great during a one-on-one exchange &#8211; I&#8217;d just never had anyone do it about my svcs in a room of 150 people.  It even happened from the pres. of the group when I gave away my door prize. Totally weird, never happened before experience for me and it is really paying off&#8230;less than 18 hours after the event I&#8217;ve had two phone calls from people who were at the event interested in my stuff.  Yeah for me, yeah for my biz!</p>
<p>The good:  Thank the Universe for grandpa because he watched the kids for me so I could still go to said event.</p>
<p>The good:  Sans husband hasn&#8217;t really been so bad because the weather has been yuck and three soccer practices have been cancelled. Yeah for me! So, instead of running around the country-side I&#8217;ve had three quality nights at home with my kids.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 18:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The hard stuff: went back to work, and there were auditors here!!! *hides*

Good stuff:payday

I wish I were in Portland, I&#039;d be your assistant.  =(

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Melissas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://noexcusesbehavior.wordpress.com/2008/10/15/is-it-really-the-hormones-talking/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Is It Really the Hormones Talking?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The hard stuff: went back to work, and there were auditors here!!! *hides*</p>
<p>Good stuff:payday</p>
<p>I wish I were in Portland, I&#8217;d be your assistant.  =(</p>
<p><abbr><em>Melissas last blog post..<a href="http://noexcusesbehavior.wordpress.com/2008/10/15/is-it-really-the-hormones-talking/" rel="nofollow">Is It Really the Hormones Talking?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: chas</title>
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		<dc:creator>chas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 18:33:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>so let&#039;s see here...you&#039;ve got carole doing free marketing for you, and then untold havi-nauts telling the world how much they love you...internet famous meter rising...

what next?  punching out paparazzi and spilling soy chai latte on selma?

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;chass last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.creative-lifestyles.com/poverty-up-close/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;poverty up close&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so let&#8217;s see here&#8230;you&#8217;ve got carole doing free marketing for you, and then untold havi-nauts telling the world how much they love you&#8230;internet famous meter rising&#8230;</p>
<p>what next?  punching out paparazzi and spilling soy chai latte on selma?</p>
<p><abbr><em>chass last blog post..<a href="http://www.creative-lifestyles.com/poverty-up-close/" rel="nofollow">poverty up close</a></em></abbr></p>
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