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		<title>By: Sonia Simone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sonia Simone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 17:46:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is a mini epiphany an ittypiphany?

For some reason that makes me think of Naomi doing Dance of Shiva for about 4 seconds and then punching someone in the head. Which is sort of a happy, smile-making thought.
.-= Sonia Simone´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheRemarkableCommunicationBlog/~3/7tjjBDTfOug/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How To Write For Regular Readers&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
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<p>For some reason that makes me think of Naomi doing Dance of Shiva for about 4 seconds and then punching someone in the head. Which is sort of a happy, smile-making thought.<br />
.-= Sonia Simone´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheRemarkableCommunicationBlog/~3/7tjjBDTfOug/" rel="nofollow">How To Write For Regular Readers</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Vocabulary of an English Graduate (lots of monster battling here) &#171; Life After Web: the blog</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vocabulary of an English Graduate (lots of monster battling here) &#171; Life After Web: the blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 15:25:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] something I feel like I need to look up. This week it was a quote on Havi’s blog from &lt;a href=one of her Item! Posts: “I like to… laugh at anything that pokes fun at commercialism, holiday treacle, or extreme [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] something I feel like I need to look up. This week it was a quote on Havi’s blog from &lt;a href=one of her Item! Posts: “I like to… laugh at anything that pokes fun at commercialism, holiday treacle, or extreme [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Tami</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tami</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 15:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Something I&#039;ve been thinking about?

The irony of me not really enjoying the learning process despite being a teacher.
.-= Tami´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://teachergoesbacktoschool.wordpress.com/2010/01/14/yogamusic365-day14-%E2%80%93-trouble-in-mind-by-hayes-carll/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Yoga+Music365 (day14) – Trouble in Mind by Hayes Carll&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something I&#8217;ve been thinking about?</p>
<p>The irony of me not really enjoying the learning process despite being a teacher.<br />
.-= Tami´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://teachergoesbacktoschool.wordpress.com/2010/01/14/yogamusic365-day14-%E2%80%93-trouble-in-mind-by-hayes-carll/" rel="nofollow">Yoga+Music365 (day14) – Trouble in Mind by Hayes Carll</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura Belgray</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura Belgray</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 05:27:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@kathleen: I think that&#039;s called a prepiphany.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@kathleen: I think that&#8217;s called a prepiphany.<br />
.-= Laura Belgray´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/http/talkingshrimpcom/blog/feed/~3/ajrIrMEu6PM/" rel="nofollow">How to be one of *those* people</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Kathleen Avins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathleen Avins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 04:50:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Item!  I amuse myself no end!

Reviewing my comments from the past few days:  On Sunday, I shared a VPA in which I asked for my sense of humor to help me get through some uncomfortable projects.  On Monday, I read The Illusion of Planning, and commented, &quot;Ah, yes!  This is helpful!  I will allow myself the comfort of planning, without the unhelpful, gotta-do-it-gonna-do-it-NOW-dammit subtext.  Then, on Tuesday, I embraced my inner Inowanna Iguana, told it I loved it, but then what did I do?  I made a plan (want to work on this project tonight) but then I went and slipped in a &quot;should&quot; (gonna *finish* this thing tonight, *really mean it*!)  Sure, I tried to candy-coat it -- &quot;Let&#039;s do this playfully, okay?&quot; -- but my iguana didn&#039;t respond to the candy; my iguana responded to the &quot;we have to do this tonight!&quot; directive.  My iguana is not &lt;i&gt;schtupid.&lt;/i&gt;  In retrospect, I&#039;m lucky I got in a good hour&#039;s work before rebellion set in.

This pattern-changing stuff is slippery business, sometimes.

Yeah, I think I&#039;m calling this a mini-epiphany -- but it also feels like a *pre*-epiphany.  Like there&#039;s another shoe ready to drop -- not get thrown, just drop.  Curiouser and xuriouser...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Item!  I amuse myself no end!</p>
<p>Reviewing my comments from the past few days:  On Sunday, I shared a VPA in which I asked for my sense of humor to help me get through some uncomfortable projects.  On Monday, I read The Illusion of Planning, and commented, &#8220;Ah, yes!  This is helpful!  I will allow myself the comfort of planning, without the unhelpful, gotta-do-it-gonna-do-it-NOW-dammit subtext.  Then, on Tuesday, I embraced my inner Inowanna Iguana, told it I loved it, but then what did I do?  I made a plan (want to work on this project tonight) but then I went and slipped in a &#8220;should&#8221; (gonna *finish* this thing tonight, *really mean it*!)  Sure, I tried to candy-coat it &#8212; &#8220;Let&#8217;s do this playfully, okay?&#8221; &#8212; but my iguana didn&#8217;t respond to the candy; my iguana responded to the &#8220;we have to do this tonight!&#8221; directive.  My iguana is not <i>schtupid.</i>  In retrospect, I&#8217;m lucky I got in a good hour&#8217;s work before rebellion set in.</p>
<p>This pattern-changing stuff is slippery business, sometimes.</p>
<p>Yeah, I think I&#8217;m calling this a mini-epiphany &#8212; but it also feels like a *pre*-epiphany.  Like there&#8217;s another shoe ready to drop &#8212; not get thrown, just drop.  Curiouser and xuriouser&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Blue</title>
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		<dc:creator>Blue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Combination &quot;a song I have been singing all day long which is AWESOME&quot; and a response to @Willie Hewes and everyone (like me too!) who keeps putting off getting those little things that we really want and can afford:

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGJT9XfM2y0&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jam Tomorrow, Jam Yesterday (but never, ever Jam Today).&lt;/a&gt;

As performed by Carol Channing.
.-= Blue´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://educatingblue.wordpress.com/2010/01/13/blues-childhood-diaries-september-30-1995/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Blue’s Childhood Diaries: September 30, 1995&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Combination &#8220;a song I have been singing all day long which is AWESOME&#8221; and a response to @Willie Hewes and everyone (like me too!) who keeps putting off getting those little things that we really want and can afford:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGJT9XfM2y0" rel="nofollow">Jam Tomorrow, Jam Yesterday (but never, ever Jam Today).</a></p>
<p>As performed by Carol Channing.<br />
.-= Blue´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://educatingblue.wordpress.com/2010/01/13/blues-childhood-diaries-september-30-1995/" rel="nofollow">Blue’s Childhood Diaries: September 30, 1995</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: claire</title>
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		<dc:creator>claire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 01:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Drumming as item totally reminded me of how I always wanted to go to the weekly drumming circle in college but always had class when they met. I do still enjoy drumming on things though. And rock band. :)

My recent mini-epiphany was that when the comment love thing on your site is being finicky with me, I need not get frustrated. I can just manually link to my last post. Duh.

Also settled on &lt;a href=&quot;http://tallerthanaveragetales.blogspot.com/2010/01/2010-this-is-your-secret-name-in-our.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;my theme for 2010&lt;/a&gt; once I stopped trying to force it. (Sovereignty makes an appearance but gets rejiggered into my vernacular.)

Claire&#039;s last post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://tallerthanaveragetales.blogspot.com/2010/01/2-ruin-photographs-of-vanishing-america.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;2. &lt;i&gt;Ruin: Photographs of a Vanishing America&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Drumming as item totally reminded me of how I always wanted to go to the weekly drumming circle in college but always had class when they met. I do still enjoy drumming on things though. And rock band. :)</p>
<p>My recent mini-epiphany was that when the comment love thing on your site is being finicky with me, I need not get frustrated. I can just manually link to my last post. Duh.</p>
<p>Also settled on <a href="http://tallerthanaveragetales.blogspot.com/2010/01/2010-this-is-your-secret-name-in-our.html" rel="nofollow">my theme for 2010</a> once I stopped trying to force it. (Sovereignty makes an appearance but gets rejiggered into my vernacular.)</p>
<p>Claire&#8217;s last post&#8230;<a href="http://tallerthanaveragetales.blogspot.com/2010/01/2-ruin-photographs-of-vanishing-america.html" rel="nofollow">2. <i>Ruin: Photographs of a Vanishing America</i></a></p>
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		<title>By: Lydia, Clueless Crafter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lydia, Clueless Crafter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 20:14:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m thinking that it was a good idea I took my stuff to the Chiropractor and had him work out some garbage in my back, the stuff that clouds the spirit. 

I&#039;m not whining anymore about feeling in the dumps.   Why? I went dumpster diving today in New York City&#039;s fabulous garbage and found some refuse I could not refuse.  I will be dressing my white-walled creative space with it shortly.

Finally, I am glad to have read this post.  I learned a new word today &quot;treacle&quot;.  I hope to avoid treacle in my posts going forward.
.-= Lydia, Clueless Crafter´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thecluelesscrafter.com/2010/01/knit-wit-2/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Knit Wit&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m thinking that it was a good idea I took my stuff to the Chiropractor and had him work out some garbage in my back, the stuff that clouds the spirit. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not whining anymore about feeling in the dumps.   Why? I went dumpster diving today in New York City&#8217;s fabulous garbage and found some refuse I could not refuse.  I will be dressing my white-walled creative space with it shortly.</p>
<p>Finally, I am glad to have read this post.  I learned a new word today &#8220;treacle&#8221;.  I hope to avoid treacle in my posts going forward.<br />
.-= Lydia, Clueless Crafter´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://www.thecluelesscrafter.com/2010/01/knit-wit-2/" rel="nofollow">Knit Wit</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Lauren</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lauren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 18:16:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am still thinking about yesterday&#039;s post! 

Last weekend I had a small pile of beautiful plans which all went up in a tiny puff of smoke. Poof! But once the smoke cleared I saw that realising the plans made rooms for something more important. I dare to even call my new situation better, even though it wasn&#039;t what I asked for - or wanted. It turns out to be what I needed.

Go figure! ;-P
.-= Lauren´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wishtosee.com/archives/2009/12/20-things-in-2009-that-didnt-suck.htm&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;20 Things in 2009 That Didn&#039;t Suck&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am still thinking about yesterday&#8217;s post! </p>
<p>Last weekend I had a small pile of beautiful plans which all went up in a tiny puff of smoke. Poof! But once the smoke cleared I saw that realising the plans made rooms for something more important. I dare to even call my new situation better, even though it wasn&#8217;t what I asked for &#8211; or wanted. It turns out to be what I needed.</p>
<p>Go figure! ;-P<br />
.-= Lauren´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://www.wishtosee.com/archives/2009/12/20-things-in-2009-that-didnt-suck.htm" rel="nofollow">20 Things in 2009 That Didn&#8217;t Suck</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Victoria Brouhard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Victoria Brouhard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 18:14:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m thinking about how it&#039;s usually the posts that *I* don&#039;t think are important or deep that impact people the most. Thank you, Havi, for Item!-izing this one!

@Nenah - I&#039;m so glad you found the post at the right time!

And what you said?

&quot;Convincing yourself that something is right for you doesn’t actually make it anymore valuable or right. In fact I am coming to believe that the brain just isn’t that smart and sassy. More like a never ending loop repeating what is known even when it soooo doesn’t work.&quot;

Brilliant!

Our brains really do think they&#039;re smart and sassy, don&#039;t they?
.-= Victoria Brouhard´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/VictoriaBrouhard/~3/UKFRO_YLeG4/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Noticings on the Hiking Trail and Elsewhere&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m thinking about how it&#8217;s usually the posts that *I* don&#8217;t think are important or deep that impact people the most. Thank you, Havi, for Item!-izing this one!</p>
<p>@Nenah &#8211; I&#8217;m so glad you found the post at the right time!</p>
<p>And what you said?</p>
<p>&#8220;Convincing yourself that something is right for you doesn’t actually make it anymore valuable or right. In fact I am coming to believe that the brain just isn’t that smart and sassy. More like a never ending loop repeating what is known even when it soooo doesn’t work.&#8221;</p>
<p>Brilliant!</p>
<p>Our brains really do think they&#8217;re smart and sassy, don&#8217;t they?<br />
.-= Victoria Brouhard´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/VictoriaBrouhard/~3/UKFRO_YLeG4/" rel="nofollow">Noticings on the Hiking Trail and Elsewhere</a> =-.</p>
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