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	<title>Comments on: Friday Round-up: a ritual is born</title>
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	<description>When you need some destuckification.</description>
	<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 09:46:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Havi Brooks</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/stuff/friday-round-up-a-ritual-is-born/#comment-270</link>
		<dc:creator>Havi Brooks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2008 18:54:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yay! Thanks, guys. You rock. And to everyone who emailed me. 

Yeah, I think "reviewing" comes with a lot of pressure (What if it turns out my week completely sucked? Why would I want to take stock of all the things I didn't accomplish?). I know a lot of people have negative church/synagogue/family associations with it. A lot of have-tos. 

My version is definitely about letting some part other than the have-tos have its say. Easier said than done, maybe, but still worth a try.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yay! Thanks, guys. You rock. And to everyone who emailed me. </p>
<p>Yeah, I think &#8220;reviewing&#8221; comes with a lot of pressure (What if it turns out my week completely sucked? Why would I want to take stock of all the things I didn&#8217;t accomplish?). I know a lot of people have negative church/synagogue/family associations with it. A lot of have-tos. </p>
<p>My version is definitely about letting some part other than the have-tos have its say. Easier said than done, maybe, but still worth a try.</p>
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		<title>By: Myra Klarman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Myra Klarman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2008 04:02:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for including Suzie + her frog in your round-up! The power of blogs to spread goodness and inspiration never ceases to amaze me. And you never cease to amaze me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for including Suzie + her frog in your round-up! The power of blogs to spread goodness and inspiration never ceases to amaze me. And you never cease to amaze me.</p>
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		<title>By: GirlPie</title>
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		<dc:creator>GirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2008 04:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice idea; I'd always resisted the review because I didn't need the pressure of "behind on this, delayed on that, gave away too much of the other" etc.  But the way you broach it seems more about checking the mirror and being appreciative rather than judgmental.  Thanks for the new ritual~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice idea; I&#8217;d always resisted the review because I didn&#8217;t need the pressure of &#8220;behind on this, delayed on that, gave away too much of the other&#8221; etc.  But the way you broach it seems more about checking the mirror and being appreciative rather than judgmental.  Thanks for the new ritual~</p>
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