Comments on: Destuckifying when the shoes are flying overhead.

By: » Things I Do When I Need Some Inspiration katarinka

» Things I Do When I Need Some Inspiration katarinka — Thu, 09 Aug 2012 04:10:28 +0000

[...] Thing that makes you happy and getting what you love into the world. She has posts tailored to what to do when you feel like you’re being attacked and that sucks, approaching walls and roadblocks in a way that won’t make you feel *more* stuck, and just [...]

By: katarinka

katarinka — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 04:26:31 +0000

I’ve read this post over and over the past few days, so I had to share and say thank you for opening up this process for me. I had about three shoes thrown at me in quick succession, so they turned into one huge shoe from one huge shoe-monster. I finally went to my partner and shared this with him, and he so perfectly and succinctly reiterated the essences of shoe throwing and sovereignty.

I am still appreciating and respecting the process, but now in a much more content state, currently sitting somewhere between it’s all about them and it’s got nothing to do with me (so I have the time and energy to work on My Things). mwah, love you, Havi.

By: Conversations: Systems and Honour [really long post where I coach myself out of anger and into fear] | Wings of Flight

Thu, 26 May 2011 11:21:13 +0000

[...] me: Ooookay… I can see you’re in a space of “all about them”. Let’s take a step back and focus it back on us. This is our REACTION to someone else’s [...]

By: Broken « The Secret Life Of Worm Hill

Broken « The Secret Life Of Worm Hill — Sun, 27 Feb 2011 22:01:42 +0000

[...] I think I threw a shoe last [...]

By: Unpacking the family china | my seed house

Unpacking the family china | my seed house — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 23:21:06 +0000

[...] That it was painful (ow, so many shoes), [...]

By: Knowing the story, not knowing the story | my seed house

Knowing the story, not knowing the story | my seed house — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 23:50:01 +0000

[...] thinking this is something like when someone throws a shoe at you. Except there is no shoe [...]

By: Rumination « Wings of Flight

Rumination « Wings of Flight — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 10:54:01 +0000

[...] it more common. This reminded me of something Havi said about dealing with shoes: (Shoes refer to people saying mean things about you) “Not interacting with people throwing shoes at me means not having to build all that [...]

By: Swistle

Swistle — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 18:46:13 +0000

I am new here, and I'm somewhere on the spectrum between it's all about me and it's all about them, mostly it's all about them (with the accompanying anger and frustration and indignation and, basically, beating head against wall because entire world can't see things my way). So I'm eating this stuff up. .-= Swistle´s last post ... Sneaky Sneaky SNAKY =-.

By: cottage copy » Blog Archive » On Shoe Throwing, and Being a Pirate Queen

Thu, 17 Dec 2009 19:51:58 +0000

[...] to this. Writing is personal. The internet, in many ways, is not. And if I am going to be the pirate queen of this space (and I fully intend to be) I need to stand behind my writing, and my business, and [...]

By: When I Grow Up – The Blog » Blog Archive » Link Love: Sept 2009

When I Grow Up – The Blog » Blog Archive » Link Love: Sept 2009 — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 14:31:49 +0000

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