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		<title>By: Rose</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/stuckification/conversations-with-blocks-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-13951</link>
		<dc:creator>Rose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 23:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for sharing this post with us. 

I&#039;ve had some interesting meditation experiences, but I&#039;ve yet to talk to my fear... Which probably means I&#039;m afraid of doing so..
Thanks for another wonderfully insightful post and I&#039;m glad you&#039;ve come to a compromise with your own fear.
~Rose.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for sharing this post with us. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve had some interesting meditation experiences, but I&#8217;ve yet to talk to my fear&#8230; Which probably means I&#8217;m afraid of doing so..<br />
Thanks for another wonderfully insightful post and I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;ve come to a compromise with your own fear.<br />
~Rose.<br />
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 02:36:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing these dialogues. Here&#039;s a poem that bowl reminds me of so much:

ADOLESCENCE--III

Rita Dove


With  Dad gone, Mom and I worked 
The dusky rows of tomatoes.
As they glowed orange in sunlight
And rotted in shadow,  I too
Grew orange and softer, swelling out
Starched cotton slips.

The texture of twilight made me think of
Lengths of Dotted Swiss.  In my room
I wrapped scarred knees in dresses
That once went to big-band dances;
I baptized my earlobes with rosewater.
Along the window-sill, the lipstick stubs
Glittered in their steel shells.

Looking out at the rows of clay
And chicken manure, I dreamed how it would happen:
He would meet me by the blue spruce,
A carnation over his heart, saying,
&quot;I have come for you, Madam;
I have loved you in my dreams.&quot;
At his touch, the scabs would fall away.
Over his shoulder, I see my father coming toward us:
He carries his tears in a bowl,
And blood hangs in the pine-soaked air.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing these dialogues. Here&#8217;s a poem that bowl reminds me of so much:</p>
<p>ADOLESCENCE&#8211;III</p>
<p>Rita Dove</p>
<p>With  Dad gone, Mom and I worked<br />
The dusky rows of tomatoes.<br />
As they glowed orange in sunlight<br />
And rotted in shadow,  I too<br />
Grew orange and softer, swelling out<br />
Starched cotton slips.</p>
<p>The texture of twilight made me think of<br />
Lengths of Dotted Swiss.  In my room<br />
I wrapped scarred knees in dresses<br />
That once went to big-band dances;<br />
I baptized my earlobes with rosewater.<br />
Along the window-sill, the lipstick stubs<br />
Glittered in their steel shells.</p>
<p>Looking out at the rows of clay<br />
And chicken manure, I dreamed how it would happen:<br />
He would meet me by the blue spruce,<br />
A carnation over his heart, saying,<br />
&#8220;I have come for you, Madam;<br />
I have loved you in my dreams.&#8221;<br />
At his touch, the scabs would fall away.<br />
Over his shoulder, I see my father coming toward us:<br />
He carries his tears in a bowl,<br />
And blood hangs in the pine-soaked air.</p>
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		<title>By: Windbag phobia &#171; Insightings</title>
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		<dc:creator>Windbag phobia &#171; Insightings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 20:09:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] as the critic) out of its hole, I&#8217;ll follow in the footsteps of so many great bloggers (Havi, Joely, and James, to mention a few) and have a real heart-to-heart with my fear. I haven&#8217;t [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] as the critic) out of its hole, I&#8217;ll follow in the footsteps of so many great bloggers (Havi, Joely, and James, to mention a few) and have a real heart-to-heart with my fear. I haven&#8217;t [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Duff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Duff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 06:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wonderful! You are doing such great personal work, Havi. Making friends with all parts of one&#039;s self--this is the Great Work of authentic transformation.

I love how strange and wonderful the unconscious is sometimes, with the nest and the worms and the bowl. I have some seriously strange parts too--fun to hear about other&#039;s!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Duffs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://precisionchange.com/2009/02/17/transformation-by-donation/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Transformation by Donation&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful! You are doing such great personal work, Havi. Making friends with all parts of one&#8217;s self&#8211;this is the Great Work of authentic transformation.</p>
<p>I love how strange and wonderful the unconscious is sometimes, with the nest and the worms and the bowl. I have some seriously strange parts too&#8211;fun to hear about other&#8217;s!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Duffs last blog post..<a href="http://precisionchange.com/2009/02/17/transformation-by-donation/" rel="nofollow">Transformation by Donation</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Dave Thurston</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave Thurston</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 03:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hope you take this as a compliment. . . Made me think of Shel Silverstein and the Giving Tree.  Good Stuff.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Dave Thurstons last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.orangeshirtguy.com/w_jstatht_-_stepping_up.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;w. JstATht - Stepping Up&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hope you take this as a compliment. . . Made me think of Shel Silverstein and the Giving Tree.  Good Stuff.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Dave Thurstons last blog post..<a href="http://www.orangeshirtguy.com/w_jstatht_-_stepping_up.html" rel="nofollow">w. JstATht &#8211; Stepping Up</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Paulita</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paulita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 02:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>not going anywhere, h.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>not going anywhere, h.</p>
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		<title>By: Kate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 23:54:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is so interesting (oh, &#039;interesting&#039;, look at me go with the brain over the heart again, hello, comfort zone). I associate the second chakra mostly with &#039;home&#039;, and &#039;home&#039; is something I have a great need for but don&#039;t always know how to do - along with &#039;safe&#039; - fairly obviously because my childhood home didn&#039;t really feel like home, and certainly didn&#039;t feel safe. 

So I could do with a lovely internal wooden nest of my own, but I seem to find even the thought quite scary - I think it&#039;s a fear of relaxing and letting my guard down.

Thank you for sharing this stuff. It is inspiring and encouraging and gives me all kinds of ideas for new ways to get on with my own fear and stuckness.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kates last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.artemis.io/blog/musical-self-help/musical-self-help-no-6-valentines-day-edition-pink&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Musical self-help no. 6, Valentine&#039;s Day edition - Pink&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is so interesting (oh, &#8216;interesting&#8217;, look at me go with the brain over the heart again, hello, comfort zone). I associate the second chakra mostly with &#8216;home&#8217;, and &#8216;home&#8217; is something I have a great need for but don&#8217;t always know how to do &#8211; along with &#8216;safe&#8217; &#8211; fairly obviously because my childhood home didn&#8217;t really feel like home, and certainly didn&#8217;t feel safe. </p>
<p>So I could do with a lovely internal wooden nest of my own, but I seem to find even the thought quite scary &#8211; I think it&#8217;s a fear of relaxing and letting my guard down.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing this stuff. It is inspiring and encouraging and gives me all kinds of ideas for new ways to get on with my own fear and stuckness.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Kates last blog post..<a href="http://www.artemis.io/blog/musical-self-help/musical-self-help-no-6-valentines-day-edition-pink" rel="nofollow">Musical self-help no. 6, Valentine&#8217;s Day edition &#8211; Pink</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Hope</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hope</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 22:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m so glad that your nest healed itself and became stronger. How do you communicate with yourself like this? I wish I could do it too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m so glad that your nest healed itself and became stronger. How do you communicate with yourself like this? I wish I could do it too.</p>
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		<title>By: Julianna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julianna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 20:13:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my, I love the bowl. Makes me think salad which makes me thing a combination of a bunch of distinct parts, very different from soup; but all of which go well together. 

You&#039;ll not lose readers. Promise. Well if you do they were never meant to be here anyway. Keep on keeping it Havilicious.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Juliannas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://lunchladytomba.blogspot.com/2009/02/fiddle-sticks-and-other-grumblings.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Fiddle Sticks and Other Grumblings&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my, I love the bowl. Makes me think salad which makes me thing a combination of a bunch of distinct parts, very different from soup; but all of which go well together. </p>
<p>You&#8217;ll not lose readers. Promise. Well if you do they were never meant to be here anyway. Keep on keeping it Havilicious.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Juliannas last blog post..<a href="http://lunchladytomba.blogspot.com/2009/02/fiddle-sticks-and-other-grumblings.html" rel="nofollow">Fiddle Sticks and Other Grumblings</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Rhonda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rhonda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 18:47:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Walking with you on your journey has helped me with mine. You&#039;re helping me see that my fears about an event scheduled for very soon are really deep protection issues that have taken on a dark hurtful energy of their own. They&#039;re hurting me by over-protecting me. I&#039;m not sure how to turn them off. I listen to your Destuckifcation mp3s and they help, but those fears are powerful. But, at least, I see them now for what they are. Thank you for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Walking with you on your journey has helped me with mine. You&#8217;re helping me see that my fears about an event scheduled for very soon are really deep protection issues that have taken on a dark hurtful energy of their own. They&#8217;re hurting me by over-protecting me. I&#8217;m not sure how to turn them off. I listen to your Destuckifcation mp3s and they help, but those fears are powerful. But, at least, I see them now for what they are. Thank you for sharing.</p>
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