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		<title>By: The Menorah in my Freezer&#160;&#124;&#160;Signs of Potential</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/not-hating-on-yourself/sovereignty-casserole/comment-page-1/#comment-22478</link>
		<dc:creator>The Menorah in my Freezer&#160;&#124;&#160;Signs of Potential</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Sep 2010 17:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Boundaries help us create without giving up our sovereignty in the process (Havi writes a bit about sovereignty. Hat tip to Hiro for this idea).  Libra wants us to both edit and write, to make connections with [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Patty K &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Introvert survival techniques from the trenches</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patty K &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Introvert survival techniques from the trenches</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 23:17:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Havi and Hiro often talk about &#8220;sovereignty&#8221; (a word I hate because I can&#8217;t spell the damned thing) &#8211; which (in my loose translation) is a combination of &#8220;not giving a fuck what other people think of you&#8221; and boundaries &#8211; sorting out my own stuff from other people&#8217;s stuff. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Havi and Hiro often talk about &#8220;sovereignty&#8221; (a word I hate because I can&#8217;t spell the damned thing) &#8211; which (in my loose translation) is a combination of &#8220;not giving a fuck what other people think of you&#8221; and boundaries &#8211; sorting out my own stuff from other people&#8217;s stuff. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Borders and Business &#60; Imaginary Skies</title>
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		<dc:creator>Borders and Business &#60; Imaginary Skies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 12:43:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] totally intentionally) traipsed over your borders like over an old rug. In the end it&#8217;s what sovereignty2 is [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Calming the Chaos—Turning Busy-ness into a Business : Counsel to Creativity LLC</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/not-hating-on-yourself/sovereignty-casserole/comment-page-1/#comment-17403</link>
		<dc:creator>Calming the Chaos—Turning Busy-ness into a Business : Counsel to Creativity LLC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 May 2010 05:35:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Boga.  You can get a copy of her discussing the concept here.  Havi Brooks has also explained it here.  I also learned from Hiro that your business has a distinct soul.  Her audio discussing that is [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Boga.  You can get a copy of her discussing the concept here.  Havi Brooks has also explained it here.  I also learned from Hiro that your business has a distinct soul.  Her audio discussing that is [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Discombobulation. (Or, When I don&#8217;t feel like being sovereign.)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Discombobulation. (Or, When I don&#8217;t feel like being sovereign.)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 17:29:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] been learning about personal sovereignty, the quality of owning your space, from some wise women. Playing with techniques for establishing boundaries, separating my stuff from other [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Running and Running &#171; Dyepot, Teapot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Running and Running &#171; Dyepot, Teapot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 18:56:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Last week a friend mentioned that she&#8217;d been reading this blog on &#8220;destuckification&#8221; called The Fluent Self, so I took a look and started reading. I didn&#8217;t think I was feeling stuck, exactly, but it turned out to be exactly the sort of thing I need right now. So I want to recommend it to the rest of you in case it turns out to be what you&#8217;re needing too. In particular I like the parts about biggification and sovereignty. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Last week a friend mentioned that she&#8217;d been reading this blog on &#8220;destuckification&#8221; called The Fluent Self, so I took a look and started reading. I didn&#8217;t think I was feeling stuck, exactly, but it turned out to be exactly the sort of thing I need right now. So I want to recommend it to the rest of you in case it turns out to be what you&#8217;re needing too. In particular I like the parts about biggification and sovereignty. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: The Goat King Sits On A Golden Throne &#124; Creative Chai</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Goat King Sits On A Golden Throne &#124; Creative Chai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 19:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Want to learn more about the concept of Sovereignty? Check out this wonderful recording by Hiro Boga (some probs with that link&#8211;will fix asap) or this great post on out Havi&#8217;s blog [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Want to learn more about the concept of Sovereignty? Check out this wonderful recording by Hiro Boga (some probs with that link&#8211;will fix asap) or this great post on out Havi&#8217;s blog [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Cranky Fibro Girl And The Hostile Takeover-Part One &#124; Cranky Fibro Girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cranky Fibro Girl And The Hostile Takeover-Part One &#124; Cranky Fibro Girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 19:06:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] The Queen (or King) of Your Own Internal Space, which I&#8217;ve been learning about lately  from Havi Brooks and Hiro Boga. Because I absolutely LOATHE having to be weighed and having to talk about my weight [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] The Queen (or King) of Your Own Internal Space, which I&#8217;ve been learning about lately  from Havi Brooks and Hiro Boga. Because I absolutely LOATHE having to be weighed and having to talk about my weight [...]</p>
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		<title>By: An open letter to my art &#60; Imaginary Skies</title>
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		<dc:creator>An open letter to my art &#60; Imaginary Skies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 11:54:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] And I mean not only in regards of the copyright stuff &#8211; although that&#8217;s important too &#8211; but on a fundamental, emotional level. You&#8217;re much more sensitive than I expected and if you get hurt in anyway, you tend to get blocked. That&#8217;s why I got much better at standing between you and the arsecakes and the unguided and accidentially harmful. That&#8217;s why I try to lay off with those unreasonable expectations, which I mainly picked up from other people eitherway. That&#8217;s why I need to trust you, only you, and I need to shut out the other voices, until you&#8217;re strong enough to weather them. It&#8217;s a matter of sovereignety. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] And I mean not only in regards of the copyright stuff &#8211; although that&#8217;s important too &#8211; but on a fundamental, emotional level. You&#8217;re much more sensitive than I expected and if you get hurt in anyway, you tend to get blocked. That&#8217;s why I got much better at standing between you and the arsecakes and the unguided and accidentially harmful. That&#8217;s why I try to lay off with those unreasonable expectations, which I mainly picked up from other people eitherway. That&#8217;s why I need to trust you, only you, and I need to shut out the other voices, until you&#8217;re strong enough to weather them. It&#8217;s a matter of sovereignety. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Sovereignty, gravity, neediness and the-day-the-burglars came&#8230; &#171; GuruBody</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sovereignty, gravity, neediness and the-day-the-burglars came&#8230; &#171; GuruBody</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2010 11:55:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] interesting reflections on Sovereignty &#8230;. to add to the wondrous explorations inspired by Havi who describes Sovereignty as the quality of owning your own [...]</description>
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