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	<title>Comments on: Ask Havi #20: Am I just giving in?</title>
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		<title>By: Blogging and Authenticity</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/mindful-time-management/ask-havi-20-am-i-just-giving-in/comment-page-1/#comment-7455</link>
		<dc:creator>Blogging and Authenticity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 01:25:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] and wonderful things that make me unique and unleash that on the world, even if I feel foolish. My right people will find me if I&#8217;m not hiding behind something else, something that isn&#8217;t really me. Then [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] and wonderful things that make me unique and unleash that on the world, even if I feel foolish. My right people will find me if I&#8217;m not hiding behind something else, something that isn&#8217;t really me. Then [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Aesthetic Poets and &#8220;To Thine Own Self Be True&#8221;</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aesthetic Poets and &#8220;To Thine Own Self Be True&#8221;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 06:10:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] wonderful things that make you unique and unleash that on the world, even if you feel foolish. Your right people will find you if you&#8217;re not hiding behind something else, something that isn&#8217;t really you. Then sit [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] wonderful things that make you unique and unleash that on the world, even if you feel foolish. Your right people will find you if you&#8217;re not hiding behind something else, something that isn&#8217;t really you. Then sit [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Maybe If You Don&#8217;t Want To Do Something You &#8220;Shouldn&#8217;t&#8221; &#171; The Living Poet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maybe If You Don&#8217;t Want To Do Something You &#8220;Shouldn&#8217;t&#8221; &#171; The Living Poet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 02:51:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] got the idea from rereading this post on The Fluent Self about how to tell whether you&#8217;re just giving into your fears or l.... (I&#8217;m cool with being a broken record about how awesome The Fluent Self is for awhile because [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Writing Blog &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Aesthetic Poets and "To Thine Own Self Be True"</title>
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		<dc:creator>Writing Blog &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Aesthetic Poets and "To Thine Own Self Be True"</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2009 08:52:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] wonderful things that make you unique and unleash that on the world, even if you feel foolish. Your right people will find you if you&#8217;re not hiding behind something else, something that isn&#8217;t really you. Then sit [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] wonderful things that make you unique and unleash that on the world, even if you feel foolish. Your right people will find you if you&#8217;re not hiding behind something else, something that isn&#8217;t really you. Then sit [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Aesthetic Poets and &#8220;To Thine Own Self Be True&#8221; -- Terry Heath</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/mindful-time-management/ask-havi-20-am-i-just-giving-in/comment-page-1/#comment-4146</link>
		<dc:creator>Aesthetic Poets and &#8220;To Thine Own Self Be True&#8221; -- Terry Heath</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 14:56:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] wonderful things that make you unique and unleash that on the world, even if you feel foolish. Your right people will find you if you&#8217;re not hiding behind something else, something that isn&#8217;t really you. Then sit [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Pollyanna and the Blizzard of &#8216;09 &#171; Pollyanna Rainbow Sunshine and the Needles of Doom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pollyanna and the Blizzard of &#8216;09 &#171; Pollyanna Rainbow Sunshine and the Needles of Doom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 04:41:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] the bomb, and she&#8217;s funny, too. She has been putting things I&#8217;ve been struggling with into words that I understand in a whole new way, and now suddenly I can work with these things instead of [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Compassionate Selfishness, or How to Survive with Grace &#124; Remarkable Communication</title>
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		<dc:creator>Compassionate Selfishness, or How to Survive with Grace &#124; Remarkable Communication</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 17:14:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] can show you how to learn to talk with the bear, find out what it&#039;s trying to tell you, and send it whuffling on its way. (And no, you don&#039;t [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Janice Cartier</title>
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		<dc:creator>Janice Cartier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 16:22:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Havi,
Silly what &quot;intelligence&quot; can do to us. Make us think that because we can comprehend something and see how useful it might be, that just because we hate it, we should just get over ourselves. When all the while, big red flags are maybe signaling that it is just not our highest best use of self.  
I love this post. And thank you so much for Elaine Aron, I had not seen such a useful breakdown of HSP. ;-) Made a huge difference to me this week Havi. Thank you.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Janice Cartiers last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/JaniceCartier/~3/uNcn5FitCjY/oranges-go-here&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Oranges Go Here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Havi,<br />
Silly what &#8220;intelligence&#8221; can do to us. Make us think that because we can comprehend something and see how useful it might be, that just because we hate it, we should just get over ourselves. When all the while, big red flags are maybe signaling that it is just not our highest best use of self.<br />
I love this post. And thank you so much for Elaine Aron, I had not seen such a useful breakdown of HSP. ;-) Made a huge difference to me this week Havi. Thank you.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Janice Cartiers last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/JaniceCartier/~3/uNcn5FitCjY/oranges-go-here" rel="nofollow">Oranges Go Here</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Sandy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 05:34:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your writing is truly inspirational!  Thank for this blog site.  I have nominated your site with a Lemonade Award!  You can read more about it at my blog site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your writing is truly inspirational!  Thank for this blog site.  I have nominated your site with a Lemonade Award!  You can read more about it at my blog site.</p>
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		<title>By: Daddio</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daddio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 04:25:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, the whole deshouldification thing made me think of David Roth&#039;s song, &quot;Don&#039;t Should On Me&quot; (lyrics here:  http://www.marcogiunco.com/Testi/001987_03.htm ).

David is a great songwriter--website here:  http://www.davidrothmusic.com/index2.html

His &quot;May the Light of Love&quot; has been a favorite since the first time I heard it.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Daddios last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://georgeosner.vox.com/library/post/mother-earth.html?_c=feed-atom&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Mother Earth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, the whole deshouldification thing made me think of David Roth&#8217;s song, &#8220;Don&#8217;t Should On Me&#8221; (lyrics here:  <a href="http://www.marcogiunco.com/Testi/001987_03.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.marcogiunco.com/Testi/001987_03.htm</a> ).</p>
<p>David is a great songwriter&#8211;website here:  <a href="http://www.davidrothmusic.com/index2.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.davidrothmusic.com/index2.html</a></p>
<p>His &#8220;May the Light of Love&#8221; has been a favorite since the first time I heard it.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Daddios last blog post..<a href="http://georgeosner.vox.com/library/post/mother-earth.html?_c=feed-atom" rel="nofollow">Mother Earth</a></em></abbr></p>
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