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	<title>Comments on: Healing heartache (with a side of wackiness)</title>
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	<description>When you need some destuckification.</description>
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		<title>By: Speaking to Past Selves &#124; e-bakery</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/healing-heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-25606</link>
		<dc:creator>Speaking to Past Selves &#124; e-bakery</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Nov 2010 13:16:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Calling on past or future selves is an idea I got from Havi: [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/healing-heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-20521</link>
		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 12:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Havi,

Your article was really heart warming and helpful. Thanks for being so whacky!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Havi,</p>
<p>Your article was really heart warming and helpful. Thanks for being so whacky!</p>
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		<title>By: Karen</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/healing-heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-16167</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 07:53:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is brilliantly insightful, and just the thing for me right now. Thank you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is brilliantly insightful, and just the thing for me right now. Thank you!</p>
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		<title>By: Joely Black</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/healing-heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-1995</link>
		<dc:creator>Joely Black</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 19:26:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m reading back... I cried.

The phrase you might want is &quot;Havi (and Selma) works, bitches.&quot;

Or even &quot;Compassion works, bitches&quot; even if the tone is a little odd.

Just beautiful, really, really beautiful. Like putting all your broken-heartedness on a cushion and letting it be.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Joely Blacks last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://isabeljoelyblack.wordpress.com/2008/12/12/in-which-i-realise-i-just-went-splat-on-the-internet-or-i-explain-a-bit/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;In which I realise I just went splat on the internet (or) I explain, a bit&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m reading back&#8230; I cried.</p>
<p>The phrase you might want is &#8220;Havi (and Selma) works, bitches.&#8221;</p>
<p>Or even &#8220;Compassion works, bitches&#8221; even if the tone is a little odd.</p>
<p>Just beautiful, really, really beautiful. Like putting all your broken-heartedness on a cushion and letting it be.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Joely Blacks last blog post..<a href="http://isabeljoelyblack.wordpress.com/2008/12/12/in-which-i-realise-i-just-went-splat-on-the-internet-or-i-explain-a-bit/" rel="nofollow">In which I realise I just went splat on the internet (or) I explain, a bit</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: GirlPie</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/healing-heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-35</link>
		<dc:creator>GirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 21:25:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful story, 
beautifully written. 

I was right there in that room with the two of You!  And got a big connection from the &quot;not ready to let go&quot; angle... 

I took it to heart on a deep level, but it also reminds me that my BoyPie&#039;s sore shoulder never hurts as much as when I-of-good-intentions ask him &quot;how&#039;s your shoulder?&quot; Sometimes forgetting is good.  Thanks for a really worthwhile chunk of great writing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful story,<br />
beautifully written. </p>
<p>I was right there in that room with the two of You!  And got a big connection from the &#8220;not ready to let go&#8221; angle&#8230; </p>
<p>I took it to heart on a deep level, but it also reminds me that my BoyPie&#8217;s sore shoulder never hurts as much as when I-of-good-intentions ask him &#8220;how&#8217;s your shoulder?&#8221; Sometimes forgetting is good.  Thanks for a really worthwhile chunk of great writing.</p>
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		<title>By: Catherina</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/healing-heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-31</link>
		<dc:creator>Catherina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 14:43:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ohh my, did I just spell your name wrong.. Havi of course!!! Maybe I need a course in &quot;Science works, bitches&quot; ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ohh my, did I just spell your name wrong.. Havi of course!!! Maybe I need a course in &#8220;Science works, bitches&#8221; ;)</p>
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		<title>By: Catherina</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/healing-heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-30</link>
		<dc:creator>Catherina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 14:41:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are just AMAZING Havi!!!!
Love your sense of humor, while keeping it real and thoughtful!
Thanks for always sharing and being you!!!
:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are just AMAZING Havi!!!!<br />
Love your sense of humor, while keeping it real and thoughtful!<br />
Thanks for always sharing and being you!!!<br />
:)</p>
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		<title>By: Havi Brooks</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/healing-heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-11</link>
		<dc:creator>Havi Brooks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 11:40:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whoah, I&#039;m flattered that you&#039;re rolling out the askterisks just for me (almost didn&#039;t recognize you without all the cussin&#039;). But I think it&#039;s okay if you do it artfully and maybe only, say, 78% less than on your own blog? Ah, whatever. 

When I wrote &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fluentself.com/blog/newsletter/science-behind-your-habit/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&quot;Science works, bitches&quot;&lt;/a&gt;*, not nearly enough people were shocked and horrified. 

*Total extenuating circumstances, makes sense in context and I even apologized to my mom.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoah, I&#8217;m flattered that you&#8217;re rolling out the askterisks just for me (almost didn&#8217;t recognize you without all the cussin&#8217;). But I think it&#8217;s okay if you do it artfully and maybe only, say, 78% less than on your own blog? Ah, whatever. </p>
<p>When I wrote <a href="http://www.fluentself.com/blog/newsletter/science-behind-your-habit/" rel="nofollow">&#8220;Science works, bitches&#8221;</a>*, not nearly enough people were shocked and horrified. </p>
<p>*Total extenuating circumstances, makes sense in context and I even apologized to my mom.</p>
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		<title>By: Naomi Dunford</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/healing-heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-9</link>
		<dc:creator>Naomi Dunford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 02:35:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holy sh*t, dude. (I don&#039;t know if I&#039;m ready to swear on your woowoo wacky blog just yet. It&#039;s still a newborn. It&#039;s like, I don&#039;t know, smoking in the hospital nursery. At least let the kids get outside first.)

Anyway, enough about me, on to you. That was awesome. Really, really cool. And just what I needed to hear today. (Who am I kidding? This is just what I need to hear EVERY day.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Holy sh*t, dude. (I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m ready to swear on your woowoo wacky blog just yet. It&#8217;s still a newborn. It&#8217;s like, I don&#8217;t know, smoking in the hospital nursery. At least let the kids get outside first.)</p>
<p>Anyway, enough about me, on to you. That was awesome. Really, really cool. And just what I needed to hear today. (Who am I kidding? This is just what I need to hear EVERY day.)</p>
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