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	<description>When you need some destuckification.</description>
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		<title>By: Christine</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/costumes/comment-page-2/#comment-20137</link>
		<dc:creator>Christine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 23:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Totally late, but all that I can think of is pirate boots.

1) Find awesome boots with or without a heel and possibly with laces up the front. Ideally the top won&#039;t be too tight.
2) Sew the loop side of some velcro into the inside of the top of the boot.
3) Make nifty brocade or lace or velvet or leather or vinyl or glitter boot cuffs with hook side of velcro on them.
http://www.ehow.com/how_4928994_make-pirate-boot-tops.html
4) Get dressed in sensible outfit of pants or long skirt. Add boots with ridiculous boot cuffs underneath.
5) Grin like a maniac.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Totally late, but all that I can think of is pirate boots.</p>
<p>1) Find awesome boots with or without a heel and possibly with laces up the front. Ideally the top won&#8217;t be too tight.<br />
2) Sew the loop side of some velcro into the inside of the top of the boot.<br />
3) Make nifty brocade or lace or velvet or leather or vinyl or glitter boot cuffs with hook side of velcro on them.<br />
<a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_4928994_make-pirate-boot-tops.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.ehow.com/how_4928994_make-pirate-boot-tops.html</a><br />
4) Get dressed in sensible outfit of pants or long skirt. Add boots with ridiculous boot cuffs underneath.<br />
5) Grin like a maniac.</p>
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		<title>By: Search For Metaphor: part iv &#171; Wings of Flight</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/costumes/comment-page-1/#comment-15308</link>
		<dc:creator>Search For Metaphor: part iv &#171; Wings of Flight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 11:06:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Feminine Metaphors As I tried on each costume, I found myself drawn to the mythological state of “-esses” – enchantress, goddess, countess, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Feminine Metaphors As I tried on each costume, I found myself drawn to the mythological state of “-esses” – enchantress, goddess, countess, [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Search for Metaphor: Part i &#171; Wings of Flight</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/costumes/comment-page-1/#comment-14900</link>
		<dc:creator>Search for Metaphor: Part i &#171; Wings of Flight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 14:59:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] found her metaphor of pirate queen and has expressed the importance of costumes. Though I don’t write poetry very often anymore, I’d really like to keep the metaphor in my [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] found her metaphor of pirate queen and has expressed the importance of costumes. Though I don’t write poetry very often anymore, I’d really like to keep the metaphor in my [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Search for Metaphor: Part iii &#171; Wings of Flight</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/costumes/comment-page-1/#comment-14820</link>
		<dc:creator>Search for Metaphor: Part iii &#171; Wings of Flight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 12:11:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Metaphors came so easily to me in the fluid motion of poetry. Each aspect of me had her outfit and portrayed such [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Tracy</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/costumes/comment-page-1/#comment-14256</link>
		<dc:creator>Tracy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 18:31:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes! Yes! Costumes are very important. I have a hard time getting dressed some days (coming out of the closet, ha ha) because of an intense desire to achieve the correct integration of How I&#039;m Feeling, What I Want To Project Today, and Which Items Are Most Comfortable. These all change wildly from day to day, but I&#039;ve noticed some patterns. For example, I seem to be most comfortable physically and identity-wise in things that I associate with dancers and yoga people--leggings and jersey knit skirts and lots of light layers--even though I am not officially any sort of dancer or yoga person. This kind of outfit says something to me about flexibility and movement and being in flow.

Other parts of my costumery include scarves of all varieties, stripey socks, and jewelry with personal significance. Color is also a huge part of the &quot;integration&quot; thing I described. It&#039;s a very happy-making thing when just the right colors come together with just the right sorts of clothing for the day. It makes me feel like a whole (and sometimes even holy) person.
.-= Tracy´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://unfoldingmoment.blogspot.com/2010/02/on-mark-making-post-it-notes-from.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;On Mark-Making: Post-It Notes from the Universe&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes! Yes! Costumes are very important. I have a hard time getting dressed some days (coming out of the closet, ha ha) because of an intense desire to achieve the correct integration of How I&#8217;m Feeling, What I Want To Project Today, and Which Items Are Most Comfortable. These all change wildly from day to day, but I&#8217;ve noticed some patterns. For example, I seem to be most comfortable physically and identity-wise in things that I associate with dancers and yoga people&#8211;leggings and jersey knit skirts and lots of light layers&#8211;even though I am not officially any sort of dancer or yoga person. This kind of outfit says something to me about flexibility and movement and being in flow.</p>
<p>Other parts of my costumery include scarves of all varieties, stripey socks, and jewelry with personal significance. Color is also a huge part of the &#8220;integration&#8221; thing I described. It&#8217;s a very happy-making thing when just the right colors come together with just the right sorts of clothing for the day. It makes me feel like a whole (and sometimes even holy) person.<br />
.-= Tracy´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://unfoldingmoment.blogspot.com/2010/02/on-mark-making-post-it-notes-from.html" rel="nofollow">On Mark-Making: Post-It Notes from the Universe</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Angela Rockett</title>
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		<dc:creator>Angela Rockett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 17:07:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a totally awesome idea! I have got to try this.
.-= Angela Rockett´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://ryhopewood.blogspot.com/2010/02/blog-post.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Birthday Giveaway&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a totally awesome idea! I have got to try this.<br />
.-= Angela Rockett´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://ryhopewood.blogspot.com/2010/02/blog-post.html" rel="nofollow">Birthday Giveaway</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca Leigh</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/costumes/comment-page-1/#comment-14239</link>
		<dc:creator>Rebecca Leigh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 08:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a writing ring which I first acquired as my talisman for NaNoWriMo.

It is a big gem-stoney butterfly and flutters beautifully on my finger as I type. I like the weight of it as I tap.

I reminds me of lightness, wonder, beauty, freedom and transformation - all qualities I love to have in my writing process. 

But the really fun bit is that when I&#039;m wearing it I kinda automatically imagine the rest of a flamboyant writer costume. Very Barbara Cartland. I can be as audacious and ar-teest as I like and have it all my way because &#039;I&#039;m a writer, darling&#039;.

Makes me smile every time.
.-= Rebecca Leigh´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://smartfreshwriting.com/benefits-communicating-business-value/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Benefits, reality distortion fields, and talking so your right people can hear you&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a writing ring which I first acquired as my talisman for NaNoWriMo.</p>
<p>It is a big gem-stoney butterfly and flutters beautifully on my finger as I type. I like the weight of it as I tap.</p>
<p>I reminds me of lightness, wonder, beauty, freedom and transformation &#8211; all qualities I love to have in my writing process. </p>
<p>But the really fun bit is that when I&#8217;m wearing it I kinda automatically imagine the rest of a flamboyant writer costume. Very Barbara Cartland. I can be as audacious and ar-teest as I like and have it all my way because &#8216;I&#8217;m a writer, darling&#8217;.</p>
<p>Makes me smile every time.<br />
.-= Rebecca Leigh´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://smartfreshwriting.com/benefits-communicating-business-value/" rel="nofollow">Benefits, reality distortion fields, and talking so your right people can hear you</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Mel</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/costumes/comment-page-1/#comment-14238</link>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 06:59:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ahhh, costumes!

When I first meet my partner-to-be at life-drawing classes he was always commenting on my &quot;costumes&quot;. &quot;They&#039;re not &quot;costumes&quot;, I would insist. &quot;They&#039;re clothes&quot;. But once I refelcted on it, I realized that my dressing was always really about costume. At that particular time I was working as a teacher and really struggling with it. My creative costumes were about showing my students that I was so much more than just my role in the classroom. When I went to life-drawing classes, instead of dressing down because I was worried about charcoal or ink stains, I wore my same work costume to link my two lives as drawer and teacher, so that I could take some of that identity back into my work the next day. I guess my costumes were kind of like a bridge for me at that time.

PS. My vote is for 1940s writer girl (with striking red matte lippy!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ahhh, costumes!</p>
<p>When I first meet my partner-to-be at life-drawing classes he was always commenting on my &#8220;costumes&#8221;. &#8220;They&#8217;re not &#8220;costumes&#8221;, I would insist. &#8220;They&#8217;re clothes&#8221;. But once I refelcted on it, I realized that my dressing was always really about costume. At that particular time I was working as a teacher and really struggling with it. My creative costumes were about showing my students that I was so much more than just my role in the classroom. When I went to life-drawing classes, instead of dressing down because I was worried about charcoal or ink stains, I wore my same work costume to link my two lives as drawer and teacher, so that I could take some of that identity back into my work the next day. I guess my costumes were kind of like a bridge for me at that time.</p>
<p>PS. My vote is for 1940s writer girl (with striking red matte lippy!)</p>
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		<title>By: Herb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Herb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 06:02:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My first two thoughts are:

First of all, a tie.  These are business meeting so a blouse or business suit wouldn&#039;t be out of place.  If you&#039;d normally wear a suit the tie is serious and very adult.  If you&#039;d normally wear a sweater or plain blouse a blouse and tie can be whimsical while adult.  Just remember, the tie cannot be stuff.

Second is socks, something whimsical (whimsy is huge for me), light stripity toe socks.  You&#039;re in the same town as Sock Dreams and can not only shop there unless you have ginormous feet can actually wear most of their socks (I hate most of them not fitting men at the size 10 range). &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sockdreams.com/_shop/pages/socks_detail_ProductID_909.php&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;These guys in black and purple&lt;/a&gt; or to add some sexy to it try &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sockdreams.com/_shop/pages/socks_detail_ProductID_1835.php&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this puppies&lt;/a&gt; (maybe I&#039;ll be brave enough to wear them one day).

That said, for serious, adult business a whimsical tie is your best bet.
.-= Herb´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.darketiquette.com/2010/02/25/the-path-to-becoming/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Path to Becoming&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My first two thoughts are:</p>
<p>First of all, a tie.  These are business meeting so a blouse or business suit wouldn&#8217;t be out of place.  If you&#8217;d normally wear a suit the tie is serious and very adult.  If you&#8217;d normally wear a sweater or plain blouse a blouse and tie can be whimsical while adult.  Just remember, the tie cannot be stuff.</p>
<p>Second is socks, something whimsical (whimsy is huge for me), light stripity toe socks.  You&#8217;re in the same town as Sock Dreams and can not only shop there unless you have ginormous feet can actually wear most of their socks (I hate most of them not fitting men at the size 10 range). <a href="http://www.sockdreams.com/_shop/pages/socks_detail_ProductID_909.php" rel="nofollow">These guys in black and purple</a> or to add some sexy to it try <a href="http://www.sockdreams.com/_shop/pages/socks_detail_ProductID_1835.php" rel="nofollow">this puppies</a> (maybe I&#8217;ll be brave enough to wear them one day).</p>
<p>That said, for serious, adult business a whimsical tie is your best bet.<br />
.-= Herb´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://www.darketiquette.com/2010/02/25/the-path-to-becoming/" rel="nofollow">The Path to Becoming</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Holly Hunt</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/habits/costumes/comment-page-1/#comment-14235</link>
		<dc:creator>Holly Hunt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 05:10:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First thing I thought of was a luscious shawl. You know, something beautiful and over-the-top and soft and just plain comfy. Because, then you could pretend you&#039;re a rich and snoo...I mean, sophisticated woman. With a nice pants suit or, even better, a cute dress, you could take the costume even further. See, you get to make fun of being a grownup, _and_ money. Also, luscious shawls are wonderful for cuddling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First thing I thought of was a luscious shawl. You know, something beautiful and over-the-top and soft and just plain comfy. Because, then you could pretend you&#8217;re a rich and snoo&#8230;I mean, sophisticated woman. With a nice pants suit or, even better, a cute dress, you could take the costume even further. See, you get to make fun of being a grownup, _and_ money. Also, luscious shawls are wonderful for cuddling.</p>
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