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		<title>By: Havi Brooks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Havi Brooks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 04:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;img src=&quot;http://fluentself.com/images/blog/ducks/Selma_tinyB.png&quot;&gt; Awesome.

@Julianna - I&#039;m going to send you the book! And then if you like you can send it to Carma when you&#039;re done. Though I hope she&#039;ll keep featuring pictures of gigantic-scary containers full of cheese balls. 

Can you send Marissa your address? Just support -at - fluentself dot com? And I&#039;ll make sure it gets to you! Hooray. I love this. And then if you hate it, we can laugh about it together. And if you love it, then I will be overjoyed that someone got useful stuff from it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://fluentself.com/images/blog/ducks/Selma_tinyB.png"/> Awesome.</p>
<p>@Julianna &#8211; I&#8217;m going to send you the book! And then if you like you can send it to Carma when you&#8217;re done. Though I hope she&#8217;ll keep featuring pictures of gigantic-scary containers full of cheese balls. </p>
<p>Can you send Marissa your address? Just support -at &#8211; fluentself dot com? And I&#8217;ll make sure it gets to you! Hooray. I love this. And then if you hate it, we can laugh about it together. And if you love it, then I will be overjoyed that someone got useful stuff from it.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlie</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/book-reviews/this-is-not-a-book-review/comment-page-1/#comment-3873</link>
		<dc:creator>Charlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 21:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm...I&#039;m with Jen in that I don&#039;t read every post, but I&#039;m super in the ones you read. So you must be busy stalking folks all the time.

I was having firecracker brain the other day and had to resort to mind-mapping to make sense of what was going on in there, and I got stuck at my reviews. I have six or seven books that I&#039;ve meant to review but never have. So I feel guilty about it, because some of them are books for my friends and they&#039;re really great. (Both the books and the friends.)

And then I got more at SXSW - both books and friends. And friends with books. And they&#039;re really great, too.

I&#039;m still stuck with it, though, because I don&#039;t know how I&#039;m going to get them all out. And because I don&#039;t like having too many reviews without much other content, but I&#039;m already backed up for weeks with other posts that I can&#039;t figure out how to get out.

Stuck, Stuck, Stuck.

So now I get to sit with it for a while and really think about the &quot;shoulds&quot; that are at play.

p.s. Really great to see and talk to you and Richard. We&#039;re actually real people! :p

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Charlies last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ProductiveFlourishing/~3/k0oloVy7gMw/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Illuminated Mind: The Lie of The Four Hour Work Week&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm&#8230;I&#8217;m with Jen in that I don&#8217;t read every post, but I&#8217;m super in the ones you read. So you must be busy stalking folks all the time.</p>
<p>I was having firecracker brain the other day and had to resort to mind-mapping to make sense of what was going on in there, and I got stuck at my reviews. I have six or seven books that I&#8217;ve meant to review but never have. So I feel guilty about it, because some of them are books for my friends and they&#8217;re really great. (Both the books and the friends.)</p>
<p>And then I got more at SXSW &#8211; both books and friends. And friends with books. And they&#8217;re really great, too.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m still stuck with it, though, because I don&#8217;t know how I&#8217;m going to get them all out. And because I don&#8217;t like having too many reviews without much other content, but I&#8217;m already backed up for weeks with other posts that I can&#8217;t figure out how to get out.</p>
<p>Stuck, Stuck, Stuck.</p>
<p>So now I get to sit with it for a while and really think about the &#8220;shoulds&#8221; that are at play.</p>
<p>p.s. Really great to see and talk to you and Richard. We&#8217;re actually real people! :p</p>
<p><abbr><em>Charlies last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ProductiveFlourishing/~3/k0oloVy7gMw/" rel="nofollow">Illuminated Mind: The Lie of The Four Hour Work Week</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: daphne</title>
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		<dc:creator>daphne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 22:54:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I will be checking out that site!!

Also -- aren&#039;t you allowed to give bad reviews? That&#039;s part of the whole &#039;review&#039; thing, right? no guilt needed!!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;daphnes last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://never-travelled.blogspot.com/2009/03/how-do-you-choose-what-to-read.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How Do You Choose What To Read?&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will be checking out that site!!</p>
<p>Also &#8212; aren&#8217;t you allowed to give bad reviews? That&#8217;s part of the whole &#8216;review&#8217; thing, right? no guilt needed!!</p>
<p><abbr><em>daphnes last blog post..<a href="http://never-travelled.blogspot.com/2009/03/how-do-you-choose-what-to-read.html" rel="nofollow">How Do You Choose What To Read?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Deb Owen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb Owen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 19:08:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really couldn&#039;t read much past -- you own two pairs of shoes.

Because my brain literally started going, &quot;Seriously?  How does someone live with two pairs of shoes?&quot;  (I&#039;m a total and complete shoe whore.  Yep.  I admit it.)

I&#039;m just like....wow!  (ha)

(And yes, I know plenty of people have few shoes.  And I&#039;ve actually gone a whole entire year without buying a new pair which -- for me -- is pretty awesome and indicative of a lot of good things and changes in my life.  But then again, I mean....I just love shoes!  haha)

On another note, given my HR and corporate training background, I thought the &quot;Perfect Fit&quot; would be about finding the right job or career for you.  (HA)

All the best!
deb

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Deb Owens last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://debowen.typepad.com/8hours/2009/03/whats-wrong-with-aig-businesses-and-the-country.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;what&#039;s wrong with AIG, businesses, and the country&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really couldn&#8217;t read much past &#8212; you own two pairs of shoes.</p>
<p>Because my brain literally started going, &#8220;Seriously?  How does someone live with two pairs of shoes?&#8221;  (I&#8217;m a total and complete shoe whore.  Yep.  I admit it.)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m just like&#8230;.wow!  (ha)</p>
<p>(And yes, I know plenty of people have few shoes.  And I&#8217;ve actually gone a whole entire year without buying a new pair which &#8212; for me &#8212; is pretty awesome and indicative of a lot of good things and changes in my life.  But then again, I mean&#8230;.I just love shoes!  haha)</p>
<p>On another note, given my HR and corporate training background, I thought the &#8220;Perfect Fit&#8221; would be about finding the right job or career for you.  (HA)</p>
<p>All the best!<br />
deb</p>
<p><abbr><em>Deb Owens last blog post..<a href="http://debowen.typepad.com/8hours/2009/03/whats-wrong-with-aig-businesses-and-the-country.html" rel="nofollow">what&#8217;s wrong with AIG, businesses, and the country</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Monicarolevans</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/book-reviews/this-is-not-a-book-review/comment-page-1/#comment-3831</link>
		<dc:creator>Monicarolevans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 04:04:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Bill, you have reviewed the books and are relieved of all guilt.  But if you still aren&#039;t convinced, sent the books back, because Eileen is also right, the cross section of &quot;people who read Havi&quot; and &quot;people who want to read a whole book about strappy sandals and how not to look fat is likely awfully small.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Bill, you have reviewed the books and are relieved of all guilt.  But if you still aren&#8217;t convinced, sent the books back, because Eileen is also right, the cross section of &#8220;people who read Havi&#8221; and &#8220;people who want to read a whole book about strappy sandals and how not to look fat is likely awfully small.</p>
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		<title>By: carma</title>
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		<dc:creator>carma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 00:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, so the second book sounds a bit vacuous, but every now and then some easy reading is fun. But will it tell me to avoid cheese balls to keep my figure????  I&#039;m up for it if you haven&#039;t already found a taker :-)
carma

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;carmas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://carmasez.blogspot.com/2009/03/friday-favorites_18.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Friday Favorites&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, so the second book sounds a bit vacuous, but every now and then some easy reading is fun. But will it tell me to avoid cheese balls to keep my figure????  I&#8217;m up for it if you haven&#8217;t already found a taker :-)<br />
carma</p>
<p><abbr><em>carmas last blog post..<a href="http://carmasez.blogspot.com/2009/03/friday-favorites_18.html" rel="nofollow">Friday Favorites</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Julianna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julianna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 00:29:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, not to be black listed by &quot;your people&quot; because I&#039;m your people, but I could handle the Your Perfect Fit book. There are many reasons why, but going into them here makes me feel a little exposed and dare I say a bit judgy-ed. 

Irregardlessly, (which I get is horrible, therefore fun) if you&#039;d like to hook me up, I&#039;ll give it a review from someone who may find it useful. 

Also, reviewing books is something on my list I&#039;ve been wanting to tip my toe into. Seems like a good way to begin. I&#039;ll help you, you help me. 

XO

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Juliannas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://lunchladytomba.blogspot.com/2009/03/epic-me-go-on-really.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;EPIC? Me? Go on. Really?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, not to be black listed by &#8220;your people&#8221; because I&#8217;m your people, but I could handle the Your Perfect Fit book. There are many reasons why, but going into them here makes me feel a little exposed and dare I say a bit judgy-ed. </p>
<p>Irregardlessly, (which I get is horrible, therefore fun) if you&#8217;d like to hook me up, I&#8217;ll give it a review from someone who may find it useful. </p>
<p>Also, reviewing books is something on my list I&#8217;ve been wanting to tip my toe into. Seems like a good way to begin. I&#8217;ll help you, you help me. </p>
<p>XO</p>
<p><abbr><em>Juliannas last blog post..<a href="http://lunchladytomba.blogspot.com/2009/03/epic-me-go-on-really.html" rel="nofollow">EPIC? Me? Go on. Really?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Char</title>
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		<dc:creator>Char</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2009 23:48:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I review books for Amazon&#039;s Vine program.  They asked me if I&#039;d be willing to read books based on my interests and review them - it&#039;s easy and fun.  I&#039;m an author groupie and I  get to choose the books, they send &#039;em to me (it&#039;s free by the way) and I say what my experience was.  There are no strings attached to me loving the book or writing positive reviews.

Most of the time, because I&#039;m making the selections myself and these are new books, I love them and write glowing reviews.

Recently though I was asked to sample a product - it was a drink actually - and it tasted like carbonated Triaminic.  Gave it to my son and he felt the same way.
So, that&#039;s what I wrote.  It was the truth.

I also ordered a book based on my interests and it didn&#039;t set right with me for some reason.  I can&#039;t remember the name of the book or why but I just wrote what my experience was  - and that was the end of that.

Is this place looking for reviews based on your experience with the books Havi or do they just want glowing reviews?

I think reader&#039;s benefit from hearing honestly what other&#039;s think about books, products, etc - so your honest feedback even if you&#039;re not their right person may be what they are looking for.

  Maybe they just want your impression of their books - and I think you have a lot to offer when it comes to that sort of thing, regardless of whether you&#039;re their right people or not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I review books for Amazon&#8217;s Vine program.  They asked me if I&#8217;d be willing to read books based on my interests and review them &#8211; it&#8217;s easy and fun.  I&#8217;m an author groupie and I  get to choose the books, they send &#8216;em to me (it&#8217;s free by the way) and I say what my experience was.  There are no strings attached to me loving the book or writing positive reviews.</p>
<p>Most of the time, because I&#8217;m making the selections myself and these are new books, I love them and write glowing reviews.</p>
<p>Recently though I was asked to sample a product &#8211; it was a drink actually &#8211; and it tasted like carbonated Triaminic.  Gave it to my son and he felt the same way.<br />
So, that&#8217;s what I wrote.  It was the truth.</p>
<p>I also ordered a book based on my interests and it didn&#8217;t set right with me for some reason.  I can&#8217;t remember the name of the book or why but I just wrote what my experience was  &#8211; and that was the end of that.</p>
<p>Is this place looking for reviews based on your experience with the books Havi or do they just want glowing reviews?</p>
<p>I think reader&#8217;s benefit from hearing honestly what other&#8217;s think about books, products, etc &#8211; so your honest feedback even if you&#8217;re not their right person may be what they are looking for.</p>
<p>  Maybe they just want your impression of their books &#8211; and I think you have a lot to offer when it comes to that sort of thing, regardless of whether you&#8217;re their right people or not.</p>
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		<title>By: jean</title>
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		<dc:creator>jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2009 22:25:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those were not only reviews, but darn good honest ones. It&#039;s not a review if it&#039;s all good &#039;n glossy. And reviews are supposed to be from *your* point of view, not everyone on the world&#039;s. ;)

As for finding new homes, besides the aforementioned always-fab freecycle, there is http://www.paperbackswap.com and bookcrossing.com, and I know my local library has a free shelf so maybe yours does too?

Good to see you back here, hope SXSW was a blast. Ezra entertained us on Twitter while you were gone :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those were not only reviews, but darn good honest ones. It&#8217;s not a review if it&#8217;s all good &#8216;n glossy. And reviews are supposed to be from *your* point of view, not everyone on the world&#8217;s. ;)</p>
<p>As for finding new homes, besides the aforementioned always-fab freecycle, there is <a href="http://www.paperbackswap.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.paperbackswap.com</a> and bookcrossing.com, and I know my local library has a free shelf so maybe yours does too?</p>
<p>Good to see you back here, hope SXSW was a blast. Ezra entertained us on Twitter while you were gone :)</p>
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		<title>By: Tiara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tiara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2009 20:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is where BookMooch (http://bookmooch.com) comes in handy! Swap books around and get your Right books in exchange :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is where BookMooch (<a href="http://bookmooch.com" rel="nofollow">http://bookmooch.com</a>) comes in handy! Swap books around and get your Right books in exchange :)</p>
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