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	<title>Comments on: Three words to drive your Right People away</title>
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	<description>When you need some destuckification.</description>
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		<title>By: Please let your light shine bright! &#124; Josiane Richer</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/three-words-to-drive-your-right-people-away/comment-page-2/#comment-43262</link>
		<dc:creator>Please let your light shine bright! &#124; Josiane Richer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 18:52:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] as Havi would say, please, please, please do not, under any circumstances, use the phrase &#8220;shameless self-promotion&#8220;; it&#8217;s never a good [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] as Havi would say, please, please, please do not, under any circumstances, use the phrase &#8220;shameless self-promotion&#8220;; it&#8217;s never a good [...]</p>
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		<title>By: What are Right People, re-visited &#171; Tara Swiger</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/three-words-to-drive-your-right-people-away/comment-page-2/#comment-42432</link>
		<dc:creator>What are Right People, re-visited &#171; Tara Swiger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2011 19:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] first heard the term from Havi, when she said: Your Right People need whatever it is you have in whatever form you give [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Self-inflicted podiatric injury and the terror of &#8216;Becoming.&#8217; &#171; Freckled Brilliance</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/three-words-to-drive-your-right-people-away/comment-page-2/#comment-41940</link>
		<dc:creator>Self-inflicted podiatric injury and the terror of &#8216;Becoming.&#8217; &#171; Freckled Brilliance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2011 14:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] happens to be only yesterday that I randomly read Havi&#8217;s post about the World&#8217;s Worst doctor. It&#8217;s scary the extent to which I read this and said &#8220;uh huh, okay&#8221; and totally [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] happens to be only yesterday that I randomly read Havi&#8217;s post about the World&#8217;s Worst doctor. It&#8217;s scary the extent to which I read this and said &#8220;uh huh, okay&#8221; and totally [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Tele</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/three-words-to-drive-your-right-people-away/comment-page-1/#comment-33959</link>
		<dc:creator>Tele</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Apr 2011 00:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brilliant!  Thanks so much for hammering home such an important message, and with so many laughs, to boot. I&#039;ve struggled in this area, same as everyone else... As a woman, as a listener, as someone who&#039;s been overly concerned about not taking up more than my share of airtime. Seriously, fantastic job shifting my thinking - so glad to have found you via SheWrites!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brilliant!  Thanks so much for hammering home such an important message, and with so many laughs, to boot. I&#8217;ve struggled in this area, same as everyone else&#8230; As a woman, as a listener, as someone who&#8217;s been overly concerned about not taking up more than my share of airtime. Seriously, fantastic job shifting my thinking &#8211; so glad to have found you via SheWrites!</p>
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		<title>By: The Shame in Shameless Self Promotion &#124; rockyourwriting</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/three-words-to-drive-your-right-people-away/comment-page-1/#comment-30572</link>
		<dc:creator>The Shame in Shameless Self Promotion &#124; rockyourwriting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Feb 2011 07:53:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] One of my favorites: her post on shameless self promotion. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Do you Believe? &#171; Low Hanging Fruit Communications</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/three-words-to-drive-your-right-people-away/comment-page-1/#comment-24882</link>
		<dc:creator>Do you Believe? &#171; Low Hanging Fruit Communications</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Oct 2010 13:26:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Is it a fear of &#8220;Shameless Self Promotion&#8220;? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 12:42:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm. Yep, guilty here as well. 
I don&#039;t say those exact words, no, that would be too simple. I am much more round-about and wordy in my apologies, to the point where I myself am no longer certain what I am apologizing for. (Which is probably worse, because even if people don&#039;t get the apology part, it&#039;s because they fell asleep halfway through it.)

It&#039;s like Sparky said -- there are SO MANY of those icky messages out there --you know the ones; they kinda sound like the internet version of an infomercial. And I SO desperately do not want to sound like one of them!

Actually, I am finding Twitter rather helpful for this: there is no way my apologies together with the link and the title would fit in the 140-character limit, so I have to choose between the apology or the link. Obviously, the apology wouldn&#039;t make much sense without the link, so I am forced to leave it out.

Still, sometimes after posting the link, I wish there was an undo button. And that&#039;s when I visit your blog and always find something that puts things back in perspective again. :)

Thanks!
.-= Lisa´s last post ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://fitforpaper.com/advice/gift-wrapping-your-product/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Gift-wrapping your product&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm. Yep, guilty here as well.<br />
I don&#8217;t say those exact words, no, that would be too simple. I am much more round-about and wordy in my apologies, to the point where I myself am no longer certain what I am apologizing for. (Which is probably worse, because even if people don&#8217;t get the apology part, it&#8217;s because they fell asleep halfway through it.)</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like Sparky said &#8212; there are SO MANY of those icky messages out there &#8211;you know the ones; they kinda sound like the internet version of an infomercial. And I SO desperately do not want to sound like one of them!</p>
<p>Actually, I am finding Twitter rather helpful for this: there is no way my apologies together with the link and the title would fit in the 140-character limit, so I have to choose between the apology or the link. Obviously, the apology wouldn&#8217;t make much sense without the link, so I am forced to leave it out.</p>
<p>Still, sometimes after posting the link, I wish there was an undo button. And that&#8217;s when I visit your blog and always find something that puts things back in perspective again. :)</p>
<p>Thanks!<br />
.-= Lisa´s last post &#8230; <a href="http://fitforpaper.com/advice/gift-wrapping-your-product/" rel="nofollow">Gift-wrapping your product</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Embrace your Right People (and the money will follow) &#171; Unapologetically Wonky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Embrace your Right People (and the money will follow) &#171; Unapologetically Wonky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 15:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] are Right People and why do we care? I first heard the term from Havi, when she said:  Your Right People need whatever it is you have in whatever form you give it.  I [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Big Fucking Logo &#187; Build a Life-Changing Website Pt 2</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/three-words-to-drive-your-right-people-away/comment-page-1/#comment-18681</link>
		<dc:creator>Big Fucking Logo &#187; Build a Life-Changing Website Pt 2</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 08:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] step through creating a life-changing site that showcases who you really are so you can meet your right people and do the work your heart longs to [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Growing your business with marketing, week 37: Shutting up :: communicatrix &#124; markets (a virgo's guide to marketing)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Growing your business with marketing, week 37: Shutting up :: communicatrix &#124; markets (a virgo's guide to marketing)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 08:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] bad at listening, there&#8217;s a non-zero chance they&#8217;re also going to be bad at sending my Right People to [...]</description>
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