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	<description>When you need some destuckification.</description>
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		<title>By: Havi Brooks</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/my-site-got-shot/comment-page-1/#comment-171</link>
		<dc:creator>Havi Brooks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 05:34:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@James &amp; Harry (aka Men With Pens), right on. Thanks for the feedback on the feedback on the feedback.

This might give an entirely new meaning to the phrase &quot;feedback loop&quot; ... that would be terrible. I should erase that. 

Anyway, you guys are the awesomest. 

@Kathy 
Whoah, I was unclear. Again. Sorry! 

The thing I was working on was the situation when you&#039;ve arrived at the blog and are scrolling down the page of posts. 

On a post where there is no comments, there was this tiny &quot;comment away!&quot; hidden next to the categories. Now it has its own line and is much more noticeable. 

However, just realized that if there ARE comments, it just says &quot;6 comments&quot; or whatever and you&#039;re supposed to figure out that this means join the conversation. 

So back to the code on that. 

And when you follow a link directly to a specific post, you get the standard &quot;Leave a Reply&quot; below the other comments ... 

@Girlpie Mwah! Thank you. 

And will think about if/how I can implement your suggestion. I laugh when I think about those super-popular blogs where you &quot;have to&quot; wade through say, 70 comments. I always feel a tiny bit guilty for not reading them all. 

Is there a word for that? I mean, for not wanting to read everyone else&#039;s comments and then feeling guilty about that? Comment complex?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@James &#038; Harry (aka Men With Pens), right on. Thanks for the feedback on the feedback on the feedback.</p>
<p>This might give an entirely new meaning to the phrase &#8220;feedback loop&#8221; &#8230; that would be terrible. I should erase that. </p>
<p>Anyway, you guys are the awesomest. </p>
<p>@Kathy<br />
Whoah, I was unclear. Again. Sorry! </p>
<p>The thing I was working on was the situation when you&#8217;ve arrived at the blog and are scrolling down the page of posts. </p>
<p>On a post where there is no comments, there was this tiny &#8220;comment away!&#8221; hidden next to the categories. Now it has its own line and is much more noticeable. </p>
<p>However, just realized that if there ARE comments, it just says &#8220;6 comments&#8221; or whatever and you&#8217;re supposed to figure out that this means join the conversation. </p>
<p>So back to the code on that. </p>
<p>And when you follow a link directly to a specific post, you get the standard &#8220;Leave a Reply&#8221; below the other comments &#8230; </p>
<p>@Girlpie Mwah! Thank you. </p>
<p>And will think about if/how I can implement your suggestion. I laugh when I think about those super-popular blogs where you &#8220;have to&#8221; wade through say, 70 comments. I always feel a tiny bit guilty for not reading them all. </p>
<p>Is there a word for that? I mean, for not wanting to read everyone else&#8217;s comments and then feeling guilty about that? Comment complex?</p>
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		<title>By: James Chartrand - Men with Pens</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/my-site-got-shot/comment-page-1/#comment-169</link>
		<dc:creator>James Chartrand - Men with Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 02:46:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just a quick note - we drive by at the blog owner&#039;s request and never by random choice, keyword search or happening through via a link. 

That&#039;s how we ended up shooting up Havi&#039;s blog - she asked :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just a quick note &#8211; we drive by at the blog owner&#8217;s request and never by random choice, keyword search or happening through via a link. </p>
<p>That&#8217;s how we ended up shooting up Havi&#8217;s blog &#8211; she asked :)</p>
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		<title>By: GirlPie</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/my-site-got-shot/comment-page-1/#comment-168</link>
		<dc:creator>GirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 02:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lovely idea for a series (although I suggest that maybe a portion of your first-time visitors may know a bit more about you and what to expect than MWP did because they either used keywords to find you, or read about you with a link like I did (IttyBiz), or are some other once-removed-but-not-from-another-planet type visitor.)

Not that MWP are from another planet. Although, now that I think about it...

Am thrilled to be learning from your learning; especially that COMMENT/REPLY request.  I see it here at the end of the comments... might I ask if it&#039;d be kosher to also add it to the end of your post -- in case someone just MUST reply before reading your comments... or is that rude? (I always read all the comments, first!) Or maybe it&#039;s only showing below the comments because it&#039;s still the featured post? 

Anyway -- looking forward to seeing what you share -- thanks so much, where do we chip in on that $30 fee you paid for our take-aways?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lovely idea for a series (although I suggest that maybe a portion of your first-time visitors may know a bit more about you and what to expect than MWP did because they either used keywords to find you, or read about you with a link like I did (IttyBiz), or are some other once-removed-but-not-from-another-planet type visitor.)</p>
<p>Not that MWP are from another planet. Although, now that I think about it&#8230;</p>
<p>Am thrilled to be learning from your learning; especially that COMMENT/REPLY request.  I see it here at the end of the comments&#8230; might I ask if it&#8217;d be kosher to also add it to the end of your post &#8212; in case someone just MUST reply before reading your comments&#8230; or is that rude? (I always read all the comments, first!) Or maybe it&#8217;s only showing below the comments because it&#8217;s still the featured post? </p>
<p>Anyway &#8212; looking forward to seeing what you share &#8212; thanks so much, where do we chip in on that $30 fee you paid for our take-aways?</p>
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		<title>By: Kathy</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/my-site-got-shot/comment-page-1/#comment-166</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 23:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>P.S. The irony that I&#039;m leaving a comment about being stuck on the De-stuckification expert&#039;s blog about not being able to find your LEAVE A COMMENT thingy is not lost on me. *cough*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>P.S. The irony that I&#8217;m leaving a comment about being stuck on the De-stuckification expert&#8217;s blog about not being able to find your LEAVE A COMMENT thingy is not lost on me. *cough*</p>
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		<title>By: Kathy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 23:48:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the post, love the idea, love Men With Pens -- and I just spent at least 4 minutes scrutinizing every inch of your blog trying to find the above referenced LEAVE A COMMENT thingy. 

Of course, I KNOW how to leave a comment, cuz I&#039;m also a blogger, so here&#039;s my comment. But it&#039;s making me crazy and totally messing with my inner smarty girl that I can&#039;t find the frickin&#039; LEAVE A COMMENT thingy.

Pls point out the obvious so I can stop obsessing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the post, love the idea, love Men With Pens &#8212; and I just spent at least 4 minutes scrutinizing every inch of your blog trying to find the above referenced LEAVE A COMMENT thingy. </p>
<p>Of course, I KNOW how to leave a comment, cuz I&#8217;m also a blogger, so here&#8217;s my comment. But it&#8217;s making me crazy and totally messing with my inner smarty girl that I can&#8217;t find the frickin&#8217; LEAVE A COMMENT thingy.</p>
<p>Pls point out the obvious so I can stop obsessing.</p>
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		<title>By: James Chartrand - Men with Pens</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Chartrand - Men with Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 22:45:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Woot! This was the best review, the coolest post (hey, all about me!) and the neatest thing to read today. 

No one has ever critiqued our critiqued, and I&#039;m going to be stuck on your series until they&#039;re done.  We truly enjoy the outside perspective and this is very, very coolness.

Cheers, Havi!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Woot! This was the best review, the coolest post (hey, all about me!) and the neatest thing to read today. </p>
<p>No one has ever critiqued our critiqued, and I&#8217;m going to be stuck on your series until they&#8217;re done.  We truly enjoy the outside perspective and this is very, very coolness.</p>
<p>Cheers, Havi!</p>
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		<title>By: Harrison McLeod</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/my-site-got-shot/comment-page-1/#comment-162</link>
		<dc:creator>Harrison McLeod</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 20:19:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! Knock my socks off now, why don&#039;t you? Excellent post and I&#039;m so pleased to see you&#039;re taking our advice to heart!

Can&#039;t wait to see the rest of the series.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! Knock my socks off now, why don&#8217;t you? Excellent post and I&#8217;m so pleased to see you&#8217;re taking our advice to heart!</p>
<p>Can&#8217;t wait to see the rest of the series.</p>
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