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		<title>By: Aaron Fung</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/blogging-therapy-what-if-no-one-shows-up/comment-page-1/#comment-34727</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron Fung</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2011 10:54:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Havi

&quot;...wacky alternative-ey Portland types who tend to think “pack” sounds too … stressful. And kinda bite-ey.&quot;

Actually, I kind of like &quot;pack,&quot; sounds powerful and a little dangerous. 

Like a wolf pack on the hunt for a trophy to satiate her terrible pain in the stomach...

*thinking about what I just said*

Hmmm, I see your point, that does sound stressful. Time to find another word. 

:-)

And yes, I agree: packs (especially of wolves) are bite-ey.

At least pack sounds better than &quot;clique&quot; :-(

*memories of high school*

Great post. And I can relate, as I am hearing the crickets chirping something in a minor key over at my very empty blog as I type. 

I&#039;m not so certain I mind my lack of audience, as I rather like hanging out in empty halls listening to insects singing in minor keys; I almost feel poetic. 

All the best,
Aaron</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Havi</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;wacky alternative-ey Portland types who tend to think “pack” sounds too … stressful. And kinda bite-ey.&#8221;</p>
<p>Actually, I kind of like &#8220;pack,&#8221; sounds powerful and a little dangerous. </p>
<p>Like a wolf pack on the hunt for a trophy to satiate her terrible pain in the stomach&#8230;</p>
<p>*thinking about what I just said*</p>
<p>Hmmm, I see your point, that does sound stressful. Time to find another word. </p>
<p>:-)</p>
<p>And yes, I agree: packs (especially of wolves) are bite-ey.</p>
<p>At least pack sounds better than &#8220;clique&#8221; :-(</p>
<p>*memories of high school*</p>
<p>Great post. And I can relate, as I am hearing the crickets chirping something in a minor key over at my very empty blog as I type. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not so certain I mind my lack of audience, as I rather like hanging out in empty halls listening to insects singing in minor keys; I almost feel poetic. </p>
<p>All the best,<br />
Aaron</p>
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		<title>By: Zodomatica - Bits of Tzaddi's Life</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zodomatica - Bits of Tzaddi's Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 05:17:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Therapy series by Havi Brooks (see bottom of the post for links to topics like mean comments, what if nobody reads my blog, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Havi Brooks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Havi Brooks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 17:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;img src=&quot;http://fluentself.com/images/blog/ducks/Selma_tinyB.png&quot;&gt; :)

Thanks, @Katie!

That&#039;s awesome that you&#039;re getting started. And the hurdles keep getting smaller and less impressive, so I&#039;m sure it will start being more fun too. 

Good luck with that -- and keep us posted!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://fluentself.com/images/blog/ducks/Selma_tinyB.png"/> :)</p>
<p>Thanks, @Katie!</p>
<p>That&#8217;s awesome that you&#8217;re getting started. And the hurdles keep getting smaller and less impressive, so I&#8217;m sure it will start being more fun too. </p>
<p>Good luck with that &#8212; and keep us posted!</p>
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		<title>By: K Miley</title>
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		<dc:creator>K Miley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 14:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been thinking about blogging for too long and I&#039;m finally doing it.  Your comments hit many of the roadblocks right on the head.  Coming to terms with just getting started was my first hurdle.  Maintaining a steady writing habit will be the next.

Thanks for sharing these thoughts.  Very helpful!

Katie

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;K Mileys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.drkatiemiley.com/Dr._Katie_Miley/Blog/Entries/2009/1/6_Resolve_to_Live_a_More_Balanced_Life.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Resolve to Live a More Balanced Life&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been thinking about blogging for too long and I&#8217;m finally doing it.  Your comments hit many of the roadblocks right on the head.  Coming to terms with just getting started was my first hurdle.  Maintaining a steady writing habit will be the next.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing these thoughts.  Very helpful!</p>
<p>Katie</p>
<p><abbr><em>K Mileys last blog post..<a href="http://www.drkatiemiley.com/Dr._Katie_Miley/Blog/Entries/2009/1/6_Resolve_to_Live_a_More_Balanced_Life.html" rel="nofollow">Resolve to Live a More Balanced Life</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Michael Martine - Remarkablogger</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Martine - Remarkablogger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 19:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Havi - Then Hunter Nuttall (we&#039;ll see if he has a Google Alert on his name, now) can write a post called Havi vs. The Avengers.

Michael Martine - Remarkabloggers last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/michaelmartine/ymYs/~3/421118616/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to Measure Blog Traffic: Web Analytics&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Havi &#8211; Then Hunter Nuttall (we&#8217;ll see if he has a Google Alert on his name, now) can write a post called Havi vs. The Avengers.</p>
<p>Michael Martine &#8211; Remarkabloggers last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/michaelmartine/ymYs/~3/421118616/" rel="nofollow">How to Measure Blog Traffic: Web Analytics</a></p>
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		<title>By: Havi Brooks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Havi Brooks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 19:32:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Michael Ha! And I was picturing this fabulous old Avenger&#039;s episode (now the music will be in my head ALL DAY)where the murderess is a sweet-looking little old lady who sticks people with her needles. 

And then our heroes have to visit this knitting circle and they don&#039;t know which of the sweet little old ladies is trying to kill them! Man, the AVENGERS! 

I need a catsuit pronto.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Michael Ha! And I was picturing this fabulous old Avenger&#8217;s episode (now the music will be in my head ALL DAY)where the murderess is a sweet-looking little old lady who sticks people with her needles. </p>
<p>And then our heroes have to visit this knitting circle and they don&#8217;t know which of the sweet little old ladies is trying to kill them! Man, the AVENGERS! </p>
<p>I need a catsuit pronto.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Martine - Remarkablogger</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Martine - Remarkablogger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 19:27:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Havi - The image it put in my mind was that Python skit of the old ladies going around roughing everybody up. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Havi &#8211; The image it put in my mind was that Python skit of the old ladies going around roughing everybody up. :-)</p>
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		<title>By: Havi Brooks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Havi Brooks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 19:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;img src=&quot;http://fluentself.com/images/blog/selma_comments.png&quot; align=&quot;left&quot;&gt; Oh, awesome. 

@Michael (Martine) - That cracked me up. You are so great.

&lt;blockquote&gt;Anybody who thinks a blog pack is more vicious than a knitting circle has never attacked a knitting circle.&lt;
/blockquote&gt;

Or BEEN attacked by a knitting circle, I should add. 

It&#039;s not that knitting circles aren&#039;t dangerous (in fact I kinda assume they are)! We were just looking for something that didn&#039;t contain the whole &quot;turning on the weakest member&quot; thing. Or the vying to be the top dog thing. 

Which reminds me to do another post about metaphors. 

Once I stop laughing ... :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://fluentself.com/images/blog/selma_comments.png" align="left"/> Oh, awesome. </p>
<p>@Michael (Martine) &#8211; That cracked me up. You are so great.</p>
<blockquote><p>Anybody who thinks a blog pack is more vicious than a knitting circle has never attacked a knitting circle.< /blockquote></p>
<p>Or BEEN attacked by a knitting circle, I should add. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s not that knitting circles aren&#8217;t dangerous (in fact I kinda assume they are)! We were just looking for something that didn&#8217;t contain the whole &#8220;turning on the weakest member&#8221; thing. Or the vying to be the top dog thing. </p>
<p>Which reminds me to do another post about metaphors. </p>
<p>Once I stop laughing &#8230; :)</p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Sandie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sandie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 18:34:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am still giggling over the whole idea of a &quot;pack&quot; being &quot;bitey.&quot; heh

Personally, I don&#039;t care so much about comments as readers. On any given day, I get about 15 visits. Total. Yes, 15. Yes, total. I&#039;d love to see that number go up because it really does feel like I&#039;m dancing alone in my living room with the windows open...except all my neighbors aren&#039;t looking at me like I&#039;m nuts.

All the advice you&#039;ve given is totally applicable to growing both comments and traffic. It&#039;s time consuming to build up trust and comradarie...and I&#039;m finding it difficult to be patient with the process. But...that&#039;s my stuff. :)

Sandies last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.macaroniandpeas.com/blog/allergy-kit/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Allergy Kit&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am still giggling over the whole idea of a &#8220;pack&#8221; being &#8220;bitey.&#8221; heh</p>
<p>Personally, I don&#8217;t care so much about comments as readers. On any given day, I get about 15 visits. Total. Yes, 15. Yes, total. I&#8217;d love to see that number go up because it really does feel like I&#8217;m dancing alone in my living room with the windows open&#8230;except all my neighbors aren&#8217;t looking at me like I&#8217;m nuts.</p>
<p>All the advice you&#8217;ve given is totally applicable to growing both comments and traffic. It&#8217;s time consuming to build up trust and comradarie&#8230;and I&#8217;m finding it difficult to be patient with the process. But&#8230;that&#8217;s my stuff. :)</p>
<p>Sandies last blog post..<a href="http://www.macaroniandpeas.com/blog/allergy-kit/" rel="nofollow">Allergy Kit</a></p>
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		<title>By: chas</title>
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		<dc:creator>chas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 17:39:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes. twitter is a bar. the blogosphere is a neighborhood. in either case it&#039;s easy to just be there, and haven&#039;t we all spend a few too many hours just being there.

thanks for your continual insights into social media (and life!)

now what can i do to help you?!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes. twitter is a bar. the blogosphere is a neighborhood. in either case it&#8217;s easy to just be there, and haven&#8217;t we all spend a few too many hours just being there.</p>
<p>thanks for your continual insights into social media (and life!)</p>
<p>now what can i do to help you?!</p>
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