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	<title>Comments on: Ask Havi #24: What if my stuff is boring and useless?</title>
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	<description>When you need some destuckification.</description>
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		<title>By: What business people can learn from rock bands &#124; Joaquín Rodríguez Kierce</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/ask-havi-24-what-if-my-stuff-is-boring-and-useless/comment-page-1/#comment-39425</link>
		<dc:creator>What business people can learn from rock bands &#124; Joaquín Rodríguez Kierce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 18:02:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] comes when &#8220;your right people (anyone you like and appreciate who likes and appreciates you)&#8221;, as Havi Brooks likes to put [...]</description>
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		<title>By: CraftyPod #123: Being More Authentic Online, with Kirsty Hall</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/ask-havi-24-what-if-my-stuff-is-boring-and-useless/comment-page-1/#comment-23769</link>
		<dc:creator>CraftyPod #123: Being More Authentic Online, with Kirsty Hall</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Oct 2010 15:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Havi Brooks talks about your right people, and people throwing [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Fear and the Ratpigeons of the Blogosphere &#171; Fly in the face</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fear and the Ratpigeons of the Blogosphere &#171; Fly in the face</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 02:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Who &#8211; besides me &#8211; is going to care enough about my perspective/journey/experience of life to bother reading it? [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Who &#8211; besides me &#8211; is going to care enough about my perspective/journey/experience of life to bother reading it? [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Company Girl Coffee: Twas the Week Before Christmas &#187; Shawna R. B. Atteberry</title>
		<link>http://www.fluentself.com/blog/biggification/ask-havi-24-what-if-my-stuff-is-boring-and-useless/comment-page-1/#comment-11562</link>
		<dc:creator>Company Girl Coffee: Twas the Week Before Christmas &#187; Shawna R. B. Atteberry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 19:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] So that&#8217;s whay I&#8217;ve been doing business wise. You can find out more about Right people here and [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Are You Playing To The Wrong Crowd?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Are You Playing To The Wrong Crowd?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 12:23:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] up to? Are the people in your stream even listening anymore? Are you surrounded by enough of your right people to cause a commotion when you speak up? Or are you playing to people who just don&#8217;t get you [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] up to? Are the people in your stream even listening anymore? Are you surrounded by enough of your right people to cause a commotion when you speak up? Or are you playing to people who just don&#8217;t get you [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Joaquin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joaquin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 14:43:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Havi! And thanks everyone! I seem to be another one of the right people at my right time (3 months after the post). 
Just spent until 3 am writing an ebook to help the jobless people in Puerto Rico and this morning assaulted by the good ol&#039; &quot;duuuude!!! why? Who cares?&quot; But it&#039;s not the first time...
Havi, the way you validate stuff is destucking, your serenity is a healthy pop-up on my screen.
[wait! What are you doing writing this comment idiot! Who cares!] :-)
.-= Joaquin&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://comomejoraresto.com/2009/09/30/y-tu-%C2%BFque-vas-a-hacer/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Ok, pero ¿cómo vamos a resolver el problema?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Havi! And thanks everyone! I seem to be another one of the right people at my right time (3 months after the post).<br />
Just spent until 3 am writing an ebook to help the jobless people in Puerto Rico and this morning assaulted by the good ol&#8217; &#8220;duuuude!!! why? Who cares?&#8221; But it&#8217;s not the first time&#8230;<br />
Havi, the way you validate stuff is destucking, your serenity is a healthy pop-up on my screen.<br />
[wait! What are you doing writing this comment idiot! Who cares!] :-)<br />
.-= Joaquin&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://comomejoraresto.com/2009/09/30/y-tu-%C2%BFque-vas-a-hacer/" rel="nofollow">Ok, pero ¿cómo vamos a resolver el problema?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: 25 Things You Can Learn From Havi (and Selma) - Blogging Tips From Jade Craven</title>
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		<dc:creator>25 Things You Can Learn From Havi (and Selma) - Blogging Tips From Jade Craven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:53:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] discussed this further in her post about &#8216;What if my stuff is boring and useful?&#8217; It [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Josiane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Josiane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 21:42:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I quickly realised, since starting my blog, that the posts I thought would be boring to anyone but me turned out to be the ones that touched people the most.  For some reason, though, it seems harder for me to apply this understanding to my Thing.  I think your post helped me with this, so I may now be able to move forward a little faster with my project.  Yay!  Hey, you&#039;re right: my Right People are waiting for it, so I&#039;d better get it to them as soon as possible!

No, my project isn&#039;t totally original, so it&#039;s good to remember that there are people out there who need my take on it.  Also, Kelvin&#039;s comment is a fabulous reminder that our own need right now for what we have to offer isn&#039;t the best way to evaluate its value: I used to need that thing, I&#039;ve searched and learned, and now I must connect with those who need it and share with them.  Sounds like a plan!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Josianes last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://kimianak.posterous.com/creative-vegan-tip-of-the-day&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Creative vegan tip of the day!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I quickly realised, since starting my blog, that the posts I thought would be boring to anyone but me turned out to be the ones that touched people the most.  For some reason, though, it seems harder for me to apply this understanding to my Thing.  I think your post helped me with this, so I may now be able to move forward a little faster with my project.  Yay!  Hey, you&#8217;re right: my Right People are waiting for it, so I&#8217;d better get it to them as soon as possible!</p>
<p>No, my project isn&#8217;t totally original, so it&#8217;s good to remember that there are people out there who need my take on it.  Also, Kelvin&#8217;s comment is a fabulous reminder that our own need right now for what we have to offer isn&#8217;t the best way to evaluate its value: I used to need that thing, I&#8217;ve searched and learned, and now I must connect with those who need it and share with them.  Sounds like a plan!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Josianes last blog post..<a href="http://kimianak.posterous.com/creative-vegan-tip-of-the-day" rel="nofollow">Creative vegan tip of the day!</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Handling Freelance Client Rejection &#124; Girl On The Write Freelance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Handling Freelance Client Rejection &#124; Girl On The Write Freelance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 20:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] to why you didn&#8217;t like it. Clearly I wasn&#8217;t meant to work with her. She wasn&#8217;t - as Havi Brooks always talks about - one of my right [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] to why you didn&#8217;t like it. Clearly I wasn&#8217;t meant to work with her. She wasn&#8217;t &#8211; as Havi Brooks always talks about &#8211; one of my right [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Jonathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 20:32:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is a great thing to hear. I recently decided to share my stuff even if nobody listens, I have been journalling this stuff for a while now. 

Havi you are the queen of de-stuck. thanks for all your help.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Jonathans last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://themysticshaman.wordpress.com/2009/06/20/love-thyself/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Love thyself&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is a great thing to hear. I recently decided to share my stuff even if nobody listens, I have been journalling this stuff for a while now. </p>
<p>Havi you are the queen of de-stuck. thanks for all your help.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Jonathans last blog post..<a href="http://themysticshaman.wordpress.com/2009/06/20/love-thyself/" rel="nofollow">Love thyself</a></em></abbr></p>
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